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bf kissing
what is a way that you could be understanding if your boyfriend makes out with another girl while your going out. like how can you be a pacifist..saying like "well i trust him and i know he still loves me" or something idk (thats why im asking)
thanks
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i don't really see how you could be understanding about something like that! either way you look at it he cheated on you and thats not something appeptable in a relationship. you know? but if you want to try to be understandin then i would say sit him down and talk to him about what happened. ask him how he could do it? why he did it? but in all reality most guys if they cheat once then they'll do it again! but good luck with you man girl =*
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I'm sorry but I really don't know any other way that I can answer this without giving you my opinion in some way. Sorry, but I mean he cheated on you! Cheaters obviously don't love their girlfriends/boyfriends that much if they cheated on them. And.. you obviously can't trust him cause if you do tell him that, then he's just gonna do out and do it again. Sorry, but you two should break up. =/
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brake up.
he cheated on u.
and its wrong.
so it doesnt matter how much u like him or not.
if he does it once hes prolly gonna do it again.
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Im sorry but i really cant answer how you want. If he makes out with another girl he doesnt truely love you. period. No matter what he says.. people dont do that to people they actually love. but if you do truely love him. Talk to him. Ask questions. Tell him you love him and give him another chance i guess.
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it sounds to me like you aren't understanding and he is telling you that you should be. whether or not i'm right..you CAN'T be understanding and you SHOULDN'T be. he is not worth your time. if he wants to go kiss other girls, he can go right ahead and do that, but he'll never be able to kiss you again. don't let him push you around like that. you deserve a guy who likes, and kisses, only you.
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you could be understanding by:
1.Kicking his arse, personally
2.Getting someone BIG to kick his arse for you
3.making a pendant out of his genetalia
4.Doing something creative with the other girls intestines and presenting it to him as a gift would be considered understanding.
5.Dumping him
I could go on but i'm sure you get the idea...
Good luck
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You want to know how to look at the bright side when it comes to your boyfriend whose cheating on you? Sorry, you can't. Thats why kissing is so special in relationships, it separates you as his girlfriend, and another girl as his friend. He kisses you, he doesn't kiss other girls. If hes making out with other girls, then you are not his only girlfriend. If you let your boyfriend make out with someone, how could you trust? Is it even there? How far will you let him go until you stop trusting him that he won't go off and have sex with someone soon? What I'm saying is that your boyfriend is not suppose to be kissing other girls, his kisses should only be for you, or else you mean nothing to him except just another girl he likes. There is no way of trying to understand and accept that.
-TheTeenGirl
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Pacifist? how about NAIVE! thats what you are> A boyfriend who makes out with another girl is called a "Cheater". Theres no other way to define it!!!
Trust? how can you trust some1 like that?
Sorry hun> You need to dump this 1! He did it 1ce, hes gonna do it again, because hes getting away with it!
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Girl,...THAT IS NOT EVEN POSSIBLE! I know a girl,...her boyfriend makes out with all of her friends, well, some of them anyway but it's so wrong for him to do that! dont you take crap from him,...say "it's either me,...or you leave" dont be afraid or whatever to stand up to him. cuz he's just not worth the trouble anyway.
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wow i dont see why you would want to forgive something like that, dump his ass.
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