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soo long but sucha good story!! i need ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There's this guy I know, and well, let's call him *Andrew* . I talked to *Andrew* like ONCE. and all i ever said was if he was a sophomore and he's like yea. So that's it. So anyways, i have myspace and i found him on there and i was like HEY! OMGGG! and i was like hey i talked to you like once and stuff and hes like ohh yea i remember you. But before i ever sent him that message, i heard he was having this halloween party. So anyways, i kinda see him like almost everyday. He's in my P.E period and when i walk out of English i see him around. But ever since i sent him that message, we've talked about like random things. And everytime he sees me he either smiles,tapps me on the shoulder and wave or just waves. (I KNOW RIGHT!! GREAT..) But the problem is that i asked him what he was doing for halloween and hes just like uhhhhh ..well..ima C if theres a party i can go to..
UGHH! he didn't even have the nerve to tell me that HE was having a party. I mean, it wasn't like i was just talking to him to get invite me to the party! Now im a person who just doesn't give a flying f***. But somehow this just hurt me. I mean we've been talking just like i guess normal friends. But he could've just told me that he was having the party and i wouldn't care if i got invited. But its at the point that im about to cry. Not because i didn't get invited.But just because he couldn't be a man and tell me the truth. And i guess you can say i kinda liked him. But i dunno. Should i just forget about this? And why do guys do this?! After he sent me that message that he was like "im gonna go c if i can go to a party." i was just like "oh kool." .....should i talk to him like nothings wrong? should i wave to him and stuff when he waves back?. I know i should keep talking to him like nothings wrong because he doesn't know that i know. But ugh..its just weird. Please help me! i feel soo bad && im sorry if this is long!! =(
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Okay well the thing is, he probably doesn't like you. He barely knows you , and he knows you as that random girl from the hallway.
The reason he's probably not telling you the truth about his party is because you're not good enough friends yet. Talk to him more often. That's pretty much the only thing you can do for right now. yeah.
!~*becca*~!
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He was pretty much lying to you, yes. But you should tell him that you found out about it and it DOES bother you. You considered him your friend--so you have a right to be a little upset. You must also remember you two aren't dating-so he can get away with this sort of thing. Don't sweat over this situation too much, guys aren't worth it unless your pursuing a serious relationship.
Hope this helped a little bit!
-Nina
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It sounds like this kid is a real winner, you should continue...
...nah I'm just kidding. Forget about him, he's obviously a hardcore loser.
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ok this is what I would do...i would just act like nothings wrong and find out if he's really having a party or not...if he is for sure ask him again what he's doing and see if he tells you the same thing or see if he comes out and tells you the truth...i hope this helps
your friend,
Jessica
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well just go up to him and say i heard you might be throwing a party this weekend and someone that talk to was invited, or be like that i want to hang out with you try to get to know you better, i mean i like you but i want to get to know you better than what i know you as now. ask him again what he is doing and if he has already found that party he is supposely be going to and talk to the person that is having the party and see if you can be invited
hope this helps
kriddle06
P.S. try to get his phone # and get back to me how everything is doing
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im gay. ha ha ha ha ha!
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Since you don't know each other real well I would just keep doping what you're doing. So long as hes communicating in some way with you there's a chance with him.
Maybe the party got cancelled, maybe a it was a rumor to begin with. You just never know for sure.
You could just ask him about it but then that might seem you are hinting for an invite.
I would just keep on as you are and get to know him better. :)
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Hi There,
The best way for you to tell him is to simply be honest. We can't help the way we feel. Find a time when you can be alone with him. It may be best to do this face to face. Sit down and just tell him that you're beginning to like him. Chances are, he may feel the same way about you.
However, before you break the news to him, you might want to make sure that he'll be ready to accept it. How long have you been friends? Sometimes, if you tell him a little too soon, he may get scared and back down. Make sure you've got a secure friendship in place before you tell
him. Most of all, you must feel comfortable telling him about your feelings toward him. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, then it may be better to wait a while. When you do tell him, like I mentioned above, just be honest about your feelings. I sincerely hope that everything will turn out for the best.
Good luck!
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