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second chances
me and a long time friend just got back in contact and we've always been really close. we've never dated or anything like that.he the type of person you can talk to anything about. he dosen't judge you for you mistakes or anything he just got a divorce and he has a daughter(she's almost 3). he's a really sweet guy and i really care for him.can any give me some advice on what to do..please help!!
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talk to him if you love him romanticaly tell him i dont think you should keep your feelings bottled up unless you think you might hurt someone by saying it .3
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I think you should renew the friendship and see where it goes. It's obvious from what you've said that you really care for him and enjoy being with him. Just take things slow.
I'm not sure a romantic relationship would be right just yet. He's just coming out of a serious relationship. He may not be ready for another relationship yet. He'll need time for his emotions to heal and to get used to raising his daughter.
Good luck. I wish you the best.
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I think if you like each other you should stay in contact.
I don't know that the time is right for a romantic relationship, that is something you will have to decide on for yourself.
You need to remember that if he is JUST divorced, he may not be looking for a long term relationship right at the moment.
You will want to make sure he is ready for that before you get to deeply involved. Don't want to be the infamous "rebound" relationship. :)
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Hi There,
I think you should give him the benefit of the doubt and hear him out. I don't think you'll lose anything by that, and then you can at least be satisfied that you have done all you can to try and make this work.It is obvious that you still have feelings for him and thats why i am telling you to meet him. Perhaps his explanation will make sense to you.However, i do urge you to be careful and try to take this as cautiously as possible. Leave the door agar for him but
not wide open...Prepare yourself emotionally to accept that perhaps it is not meant to be. This is to prevent yourself from getting hurt.
Take care, be smart and be careful. I hope this turns out for the best. Keep us updated and comeback and talk to us if you need further advice.
Good luck!
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