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I HATE HER!
Again, this isn't exactly a massive problem, but if anyone has any ideas....
I had a big falling-out with my best friend this summer. She had been pissing me off for ages, by generally being a selfish, irritating ho (there are quite a few reasons, not important), so I just told her I didn't want to speak to her anymore. And now we are back at school and she has no idea I hate her. I'm still really angry at her, and she is just totally oblivious. I feel like I'd like some way to tell her how I feel or get revenge although I know it would be just to make myself feel better and make her feel bad.
Any ideas? And I'm this post makes me look like a bitter, avengeful bitch, don't bother leaving me notes telling me that, I'll report ya :)
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Tell her that you hate her, be straight-forward and blunt. As for revenge, do to her whatever she did to you to make you hate her. But twist it around a little, so she knows what you are doing and shit.
Or you could just make her look like a complete dumbass. That is always fairly easy, unless she happens to be good at retorting.
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heyy babe. well i was in a similar situation very recently also. the best thing to do is to just tell her when she is becoming too "buddy buddy" and acting like nothing was ever wrong is to simply say " you know, im still not over this thing that has been going on, and im sorry but i still need some space from you" if she like yells and screams and throws a fit like my friend did (lol) then just think how immature she is being and how mature you are being. soon enough you will get over it and she will too and if you guys are really meant to be best friends, then you will both remain really close. If not, well everything happens for a reason and you'd rather have a BFF that you can trust and have fun with rather than one where it will feel kinda awkward. hope i helped! =] xO <3
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Believe me, and I say this from experience, revenge does nothing for you. It makes you feel horrible and guilty because you hurt the person and stooped to their level.
Don't worry; I don't think you're a bitter, avengeful b*tch. Everyone feels like they want to get revenge at least one time in their life.
Tell her calmly and in a mature way how she's been acting. Don't cause a scene, and don't be mean about it. Make sure she isn't in a bad mood and that she's alone.
Say something like, "Hey, I don't like the way you've been acting, and I'd appreciate it if you didn't speak to me anymore."
You might even want to tell her this when she's in the middle of acting like selfish or irritating. Just remember to be calm.
She probably just wants to avoid the problem, and she probably doesn't like confrontation. She wants to act like the problem isn't there so she doesn't have to deal with it.
I don't know her, so that might not be the case, but that's just what I think based on your description of the situation.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥Manders
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Ok i don't know exactly what she did but you said it was bad so i guess i can take your word for it.If you want to get revenge just pretend that your friends with her agian. And everyone knows that friends tell each other secrets right. so when she tells you her secrets like her crush or whatever blurt it out to everyone. Ths equals revenge but then you seem like the bad friend. And This all comes back to you as karma.And noone will want to trust you. So imma make it easier for ya. Just let it go. Move on with your life and stop focassing on the past cause then that makes you pathatic.
*Cleo*
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The best thing is to do is to tell her that she made you angry. Some people when they make their friends angry instead of apoligizing they pretend like ntohing happened. I know about this my brother and my dad do the same thing. The best way to talk to her is to write her a note that says you dont aprreciate her not listening to you. If she was truly your friend she wouldnt make you mad or she would at least apologize if it was her fault. The fact is everyone makes mistakes everyones mistakes are sometimes different but you need to forgive her whether it is her fault or not. It will help you move on from this and will make you feel better.
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Lol welllll... you just need to tell her that you're still really angry at her and aren't ready to speak yet. If she doesn't get the hint.. well you can slap her?! Lol she'll get it though. Good luck! (=
♥ Melissa
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You are going to have to tell her you really just don't enjoy her anymore...don't tell her you hate her-- just get the point across that you don't want her hanging around you. You must also consider that you can't really ignore her...she goes to your school--maybe you will be friends again someday. (happened to me...)
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