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really long story but i need all the help i can get!
well my X-friend, sarah, has a popular friend.
well they just became friends.
heres the story:
sarah and i made plans wedensday to do something thursday, she cancelled plans saying she was tiared and wanted to rest so i can come over tomorrow and she can by hyper.
so i said okay.. shure. tomorrows fine! but my sister is going up to look at colleges and so i need to know.. around 1045 or 11? and she said OKAY
and so we had plans and i was waiting for her to get online around 11 am because thats when shes always online.. so i said to myself "oaky she must be still sleeping"
"mom im not going to look at colleges with you and melissa, sarah can probally pick me up, worse comes to worse i wont get there." they said okay and left.
s0o i waited around untill 9oclock at NIGHT waiting for her to sign on, i called her moms house multipal times (said to call her dads house), her dads (no answer)and her cell phone millions of times. with no answer.
so then she finallu signed on about 10 o clock at night.. and
i said "WHERE WERE YOU!!!"
and she said "Katies house with tori, whats up?"
and i said "dude, we had PLANS today!"
she said: "no we didnt....."
i felt her tention of freaking out because she knows we did
she said: "it wasnt offical plans!"
i said: "well yes it was u said ill im u around 11 with the time you can get picked up!"
she said: " so that doesnt mean i can pick you up!"
i said: "well yes it does it even says it!"
(i was sending the real convo)
and then i got a IM from katie, she has never talked to me Before on AIM so i was trying to act like nothing is going between us, but wait. SARAHS AT KATIES HOUSE!
kaite: hey
me: whats upp
katie: why you messin wit my b1tch?
me: shes "messin" up "wit" my "l1fely" plans!
katie: so what she wants to hang out with popular people and not people like you, who are posers and infact fake their lives second by second.
me: my life is all true, but i got to go theres a emergency in my family, bye.
katie: yep, whats what i thought, there aint no emegency in yo family cept that im going to mess you up.
Me: you rnt going to lay a finger one me.
me: i have to go bye
katie: thats wht i thought.
Katie: your just scared
then Tori ims me
tori: whats going on with your family?
me: my grandma is about to die i have to go BYE!
Me signs off at 1136 PM.
then some reason i got a message saying "your screenname has been signed on in 2 locations and youve been kicked off" or something like that.
then my friend, mike left varies of messages and caling my cell phone. saying "your online but you rnt talking to me whats up"
me- im not online im at the hospital.
him-really what happened?
me - my g-ma is teribally sick and is about to die.
him- that sucks tell her to feel better, quickly.
me-thanks but it wont happen.
him- sarah imed me saying to calm you down
me- WHAT? im not even iming her
him- holy crap shes sending me the messages... its like I HATE YOU FOR CANCELING LIKE THAT!
and so on.. please help me and tell me if shes worth the friend i should get back (tori and sarah) and maybe a new fiend katie. but i dont know help!
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Your friend sounds like a total bitch. Omgod I cant believe that thats just crazy...she is so immature. You deserve so much better in a friend. I wouldnt even try to repair the friendship. Dude if she tries to even talk to you just blow her off. That is SO RUDE! Omgosh...omgosh! Thats just...I'm flippin bc that is so rude.
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hey that was a really long story! lol! yeah im sorry about your grandma. buy anyways i dont think she is a true friend to go and cancel on you then set you up like she did. you should forget her and hang out with some other friends. good luck! buh bye! if you need any more help im me at T3RRI2010!
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hey well if your friend(s) r gona do that that they're not your friends dude theres other people in the world shooo n like it hapens al the tym people want to be popular n stuff but popular people somtimes jus turn against you n then shes gona want u bak ... sooo dont get all worked up over it find new friends n stuf hope i helped xOx!
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People change themselves to be popular all the time. It's life, unfortunately. Even if Sarah was once a good friend, you are going to have to let that go. It is obvious that she doesn't want to be friends with you anymore. In the real world, bitches like Katie and Sarah and them aren't going to get -anywhere-. I can almost guarantee it. Plus, if you hang out with assholes like that, people start to assume that you are like them. Ignore them. If they start shit with you, talk back. Then just move on with your life.
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ahhhh, the one good thing about growing up is that stupid shit doesn't happen as often. Listen, this girl is trying to fit in with whomever she believes is popular and the sad thing about it is that she is going to turn on her friends, to be cool, and then the "cool" ones will, then...well... turn on her. Its a vicious cycle. Stay out of it as much as possible, let Sarah do the damage. If need be get a new screen name and don't take their bull shit. Call sarah on it and then leave her to her the immature, hateful, and just uncalled for behavior. Keep Tori though, she seems to actually be a friend.
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I think you should punch Sarah in the face for being such a bitch. Not really, but I doubt you should talk to her much after this. Popular people aren't all they're made out to be, and Katie will learn that. You should also find out who signed on to your name, do you know anyone who knows your password? If it's Katie, deffinetly don't talk to her again. Tori however, seems like a good friend. There wasn't much of that convo to show either way, but I think it's leaning toward good.
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She doesn't sound like she is being a very good friend. GIve her a chance but keep an eye on her. If she pulls this again then dump her as a friend. Hope I helped! ♥ ERin
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Here's the way I see it.
Tori WAS concerned enough to ask what was going on with your family.
Katie...A loser. Why hang out or be friends with someone who is going to threaten you?
Sarah is going to learn the hard way that shes not popular either. She is just to naive to realize that shes being used by Katie.
Sarah is no different than you are. If Katie thinks you are a poser etc. Believe me she thinks the same of Sarah. She is just using her for some reason. Most likely because Katie worships the ground she walks on.
So, Tori seems OK.
Sarah will be again if she ever gets a clue.
Katie= trouble maker...Beware of her. :)
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