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Question Posted Friday September 30 2005, 6:10 pm

OK i have a friend. She is really nice and we met when we were really little. We used to be like the best of best friends. I moved to a schoo, in a diff city for 3 years and she stayed here. Now we moved back and we are still friends. We go to the same school, we in the same grade and we get along. So on somedays we couldn't be closer and everything is great, but the next day she is ignoring me like I hurt her feelings or something. She sits beside me in this one class and she'll turn away and talk to naother one of our friends and won't say a WORD to me. Then I'll ask her what's wrong and she will be like nothing. And continue with what she was doing. Today was one of those days.
WHAT DO I DO???








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jenymca answered Sunday October 2 2005, 12:11 pm:
It sounds like you're friend got mean over the time period of three weeks. I say make some new friends and then she'll come crawling back to you and you'll be like "pssh, you iddnt want to talk to me in class the other day but now you do" but then be nice to her because its never nice to be mean!

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23xoTinkerBelleox32 answered Friday September 30 2005, 8:31 pm:
this may sound mean... but to make her jealous: talk to other people like all the time in front of her. ignore her and make her jealous. she'll be crawling back in no time.

xox- amber

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CutieAllTheWay41 answered Friday September 30 2005, 8:04 pm:
Well it sounds like your friend wants to be popular.Well it sounds like she is.And i think there is another reason:she felt that it was wrong that you moved to a differ place and she felt left out.So she made new friends and her other friends are just like her now.One day her friends dont like her and on different daysthey just like each other.They could have bonded a lot or talked on the phone for a long time so on that day they got even closer!i have a feeling tat your really confused but what i mean is that she made new friends while you moved!So go try and some new friends of yours because if i had a friend like that i would move on too.I hope you'll finsome new firends in you school!HAVE FUNNN!!

Bye,
Kristine♥

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SweetAsCandy411 answered Friday September 30 2005, 7:55 pm:
Your friend probably wants to spend some time with you AND her other friends. You have to admit it'd be pretty mean to ignore her friends just to hangout with you. As you said somedays you couldnt closer together which are your days when she ignores you its her other friends' days. Just make new friends and hangout with her to just like what shes doing. I hope i helped!

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hoji answered Friday September 30 2005, 7:54 pm:
have a serious talk then she is "in the mood".
she can't be your friend one day and ignore you flat the next.

i can't really tell who is right, but i have had a couple of those aquantances that are like you described your friend, bestpalls the one day the next day your shit.
i wrote them off.
either be my friend or not.

but maybe you did hurt her feelings, so talk to her first.

if people have shit with you they should sort it out with you (and visa versa), especially if you are supposed to be friends.

good luck :)

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JesusFreak2006 answered Friday September 30 2005, 7:04 pm:
you have realise you arnt doing anything...she just may have some personal issues still from when u moved way back when for 3 years cus that can tough on a friend relationship....also the days that you are close are there other people around?? cus she may be just talkin to you cus ur the only one there......im not trying to be mean or nething but some people are like that...you might even try doing that to one day and ignore her and see what she says

david

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