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I can't see my crush =(
Okay, so I like this girl, she knows I like her, but I asked her if she liked me once, she said that she likes me as a friend. I really want to hang out with her, etc, so that maybe I'll get her to rethink her response, but I'm at an age where co-ed is kind of discouraged. So, like, I got into an advanced science class, and there's only 20 people in that class. I was thrilled when I found out she had gotten in. The bad news? One of my other friends---a guy---also got in, and so I'd probably be expected to sit next to him, if we had a choice in seating.
Also, whenever I throw a party, should I invite her? I mean, theres some 15 guys there, hanging out, talking about DnD or how far we just got in Warioware, but then it would be kind of awkward to have just one single individual girl theere. I'm really kinda screwed in the head right now, she invited me to her parties, but then again, there were like ten guys there. What should I do, advicenators?
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Uhm, is she a gamer? If so than the LAN parties would prolly be fine for her.
Is she not? Then no, but hang out as "Just Friends"
Is she preppy? Shoot her. [jk!]
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don't be afraid to sit with her in class. If you have choice seating, do you have to keep the same seat the entier term/semester/year? If not, switch off between your guy friend and her. Chances are she'll want to hang out with some of her friends too.
Also, get to know her girl friends, that way, when you have a party, you can invite her along with some of her other friends that way there will be more than just one girl at the party.
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as far as the party thing goes ask her to invite some of her friends too and stay away from whatever you were talking about when you try to talk to her try to sit near both of them in the same class if your a teen i dont see how coed is discouraged maybe its just in the area you live i dunno but you could also talk to her in the hallway ask her to hang out at the mall or something be bold and out there its better then being shy because that wont get you anywhere now will it?
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Allright, so she knows you like her, and she only likes you as a friend. If she's stubborn, that probably won't change... but if you want to try and change her mind, go for it. Just try not to mess up the friendship in the process (as in, probably nothing physical)
As for the whole science thing, you can always find a seating place for three (or, well, you can in my school) so go for that. If there isn't one, tell your other friend that you like this girl and want to sit next to her, or whatever. Hopefully, he won't be an ass about it.
As for the party thing, if you want to invite her to a party, get more girls there! That would be awkward and possibly boring if she's not interested in the things you all are talking about.
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just go for it.... flirt alot with her.. make her feel comfortable with you
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.. they had some good advice.. definatly do not invite her to a party where it's just going to be guys.. I know if it was my dad He wouldn't even consider it.. b/c you always hear about . girls getting in bad situations. any way.. yea go like bowling or something in a group like invite her and tell her to bring two her friends and you invite two of yours, or somthing .. oh hey DUCKPIN BOWLING.. is really fun.. but hard to find.. depending on where you live.. look it up. costs like 25 bucks for like 6 people to go for an hour. or so. and it's fun. or like go out to steak n shake with her and some other people *not just guys once again* something you can all do that involves both sexs here.. okay any thing else drop one in my inbox.
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I Think you should tell her everything that you feel about her. And of course invite her I mean you like her, right? Well yeah do it. Always remember most girls like sweet guys. If you invite her tell her how you feel then. Hope I helped! Pretty sure I didn't, sorry. (And if she invites you to her parties and you don't show up she will probably think you blew her off and weren't that into her. Go to all of em* that she invites you too.)
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Um, first of all, you can't Make her like you. I've had that problem alot. Like you can't push someone up against a locker, and say "Like me, okay?" Just talk to her, and get to know what shes interested in. Shes probably not going to want to go on an actual date with you since she only likes you as a friend. But just get to know her, and do you know of a club she is in? Then sign up for it too. Maybe ask her if she wants to study for a science test with you, or a group of your friends. Try to keep things mixed. Boys and girls hanging out as friends is fine and it shouldn't be discouraged!
As for the party thing, I would not invite her to a party with your guy friends. Believe me, she would get so bored with just guys and she might feel uncomfortable. Maybe have a bigger party with more girls.
Anyways, I hope I helped yah but how old are you anyways? I don't think co-ed should be discouraged at any age. Unless you are like 10.
--Johanna
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