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i feel like my life is slipping away because im always trying to find a girlfriend that will last more then a week, but everything falls through. i keep thinking that if i dont make memories now then when im old i wont have anything and ultimately end up commiting suicide
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*sigh* You know the drill... Don't kill yourself. Anyway, ok, if you are only getting g/fs that last a week you are dating the wrong type of them. Find somebody with more in common. Don't EVER jump into a relationship... not good. If you like someone and want to ask them out, wait a week or 2, and if you still like them the same ask them out. But make sure they seem to like you a lot... you can tell by if they do shit that you do to them. :) But yeah. There you go.
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wow. i didnt mean to hit the random question buttom, but damn im glad i did now. you still have all of your life man, to find the perfect girl. and once you find that perfect girl, dude.... dont worry, you'll have all the memories you need. now, i beg you, for the love of God. please don't commit suicide. its not worth it. over becuase you cant find the right girl now. it takes time brother. this stuff just doesnt happen over night. its not UPS, can't ship you the perfect girl over night. if it was that easy i'd have mine by now. but i pray that you seek God. i pray brother that really do. but ill pray for you, that you'll find the right way. need anything else email me.
-God bless
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Hi. i know how you feel about wanting a girlfriend. at some point in life everyone goes though it. you should just focus on what you DO have like family and friends. your school/work and the goals you have set for yourself. you can't make anyone like you or stay with you. you should just be yourself and think positive and the right girl will come along in time and i will last more than a week. best of Luck.
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You can keep other special memories don't go to the crazy thought of killing yourself,as far as girlfriends go most come,go,but few land up being with the guy forever or in a very long term relationship,keep in mind that you have to focus on who is the problem whether it's her or you,understand the issue in order to rescue the relationship,communication is very important,trust so it can last from both boyfriend and girlfriend.
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Slow down. You will find the right girl you just have to get through all the wrong ones. You are making memories with the girls you have dated. When you find the one and you two grow old together these "weekly girls" will be the thing to talk about to make you laugh. Dont think about commiting suicide because then you will never find the one. How do you think she will feel because if your not there then she will end up alone. I know times are tough because you want to have a relationship but you have to get through this and you will. You are not the only one in the world that feels like this. I feel this way sometimes too. Just slow down and let yourself breath and before you know it she will be walking your way.
~AdviceGirl123
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You shouldn't need a girlfriend to validate you.
There's more to life than that.
Make memories with your friends... Go out and make new friends and experience new things.
Ironically, you'll probably find out that you'll find someone once you stop looking.
Go and have fun, and good luck! xxx
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first of all don't do that. all you need for memories is tons of good friends and a camera to capture the moment. on the girlfriend subject something will eventually happen when it is time. So just like what is ment to be happen. Hope i helped=]
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What about memories with friends and families?
What about other ambitions? Art? Money? Fame? Skills?
If a girlfriend is all you want in life, you'll have a hard time finding a girl who wants you. Very few people want to be a in a relationship where they are the ONLY thing tha other person has. Other interests are attractive, good friends are attractive, excitment about life is attractive!
If you aren't excited about your life, YOUR OWN LIFE, not the life you can share with a girlfriend, then you aren't going to have girls flocking to you.
Don't be depressed. Find something to be excited about. Anything. A book or tv show would be a good start. If you really can't manage that, then you probably need to seek some professional help, because it can't ALL be about a girlfriend. It can never be ALL about another person.
It doesn't take a girlfriend to make good memories. Some of my best memories have very little to do with other people and more to do with my own achievments and pleasure.
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