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um...help...lol
Ok, yes I'm the same person that's been writing the rumor questions. My boyfriend isn't coming to school the last few days and I can't get ahold of him on the phone, so I decided I wanted this advice now. Today me and my best friend were walking around the school and we started talking to one of my boyfriend's friends. My friend had her cell phone and said that I should call my b/f. And his friend said, "he's half gay." And we asked how he knew. And he said "cause he told us." Do you think this is reason to believe he is bi? And if it is what should I do? I mean as long as he loves me it doesn't really matter much, but still...it's wierd!
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Why don't you simply ask him? If he's told someone else, he should be honest with you too - and also, it might just be a rumour.
Honestly, I don't know why people get so caught up in talking about other people like that.
Also, I'm glad that if he is bi, you don't think it's some horrible thing. There's nothing wrong with it as long as you're honest with eachother. Maybe he was afraid to tell you, if this is indeed the truth.
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I don't think "this is Reason to believe he is bi." -- I think this is Reason to QUESTION *HIM* on whetheR he's bi oR not. It's just a RumoR until confiRmed by the peRson it is being spRead ABOUT, ya know?? If you want the tRuth, you'Re Really going to have to go to him foR it. And I've been theRe -- being with bisexual people... not knowing they weRe.... so I can *DEFINITELY* see how you would feel that it's "weiRd".. I undeRstand that COMPLETELY, and you aRe ENTIRELY Right!! That's YOUR opinion, and you have eveRy Right to feel that way. I didn't Really TREAT him any diffeRent... because he was the same peRson as he was BEFORE I KNEW he was bisexual... because at the time.. he WAS BISEXUAL, you undeRstand?? PeRsonally, I could neveR TREAT him as less of a human BECAUSE OF IT, but to be *peRfectly honest.. it DID change my outlook on the Relationship.. not my feelings FOR HIM.. just my outlook, ya know? Since he WAS bisexual, I had lost ALL of that special attRaction to him; I no longeR saw him as moRe than a fRiend.. and I felt betRayed. No longeR was I happie in the Relationship, and bottom line.. you can NOT stay in a Relationship just because one paRtneR doesn't want it to end. What would be the point in involving youRself in a Relationship, something that needs 100% committment, if you'Re only willing to give it 50%???? Hopefully this makes sense to you -- and hopefully eveRything works out!!
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This is a tough situation. But it pretty much all depends on whether or not you love him for who he is and not what other people think about him. He could be bi or he could not. Most of the time the friends just say that for the heck of it and it's not true. Guys can be so immature. But you have decide whether or not you can handle it, if he is. I mean personally, I couldn't. I am a strong Christian and believe that you should like a person of the opposite sex only, but that's just my own personal opinion. So, I mean you can always just talk to him. You have to trust him enough. Just call him and say, "Ya know I've heard some things, and I wanted to hear them from you to know if they were true or not".....See how that goes. I'm sure it will work out....If you have any more questions, don't hesitate to ask...Good luck
~Morgan
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wow... that must have freaked you out...
well, being bi dosen't mean that he dosen't like you. so hes bi? he still likes you, there is nothing wrong with people like that. Acctuly its a stage in most guys lifes. Most guys think this or are this for a period of time in there life, I'm not shure but I think the percentige is around 77%, so yeah... I haven't reached it yet (& I'm hopeing that I never do) but he might get over it or he might not. Just remember that there is nothing wrong with him, before you knew he was like this you liked him & after there is nothing wrong with him. The last thing he needs is for you to leave him, that will just tear him up inside, & so there is just nothing wrong with him, just comfort him & tell him that its ok, cos it is, there is nothing the matter with him. Just confort him & be nice to him, there was nothing wrong with him beofre this & there is nothing wrong with him now.
I hope that I helped & wish you the best of luck!
-Cameron
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ok this 1 is ruff well i dont think that him bein gay would have anything 2 do with him not comin 2 school and u rlly gotta look at the statistics is his friend trustworthy is he know 2 lie if not then consider believin it but then again you should talk 2 your boyfriend and see what he says b nice and tell him that there is rlly no reason 2 have a relation ship if your not gonna be truthfull 2 each other be sweet see what he says. i hope i helped...
*$*kasey*$*
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Well, it depends on who that friend is. Are they someone trustworthy? Do they lie alot or like to joke around? Most guys like to joke and might want you to fall for it. Don't assume anything until you to your boyfriend. Tell him you don't care, you'll love him anyways but you have a right to know. Hope I helped!
~oxkatekaylaxo
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wow.. that would be kind of weird, but you said it yourself, as long as he loves you it doesn't really matter. that's a really positive way to look at the situation so gj with that. if you feel comfortable, and you think its a good time then you could try talking to him. or he might confide in you.
good luck & hope i helped- :)
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Yeah, i could understand how this could be weird. But never EVER believe rumors until you get to the source. You need to ask him, gently. If he denys it, hes still figuring it out for himself. You just have to be honest and forward. I don't think his not being in school has anything to do with it, but you'll have to ask him that too. Good luck.
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