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i told the guy that i love so much that i loved him and he told me he was in love with someone else. i have never been in love with someone i have never dated, i have only loved one other person and he broke my heart. i so lost and confused cause i thought that the guy i loved doesnt feel the same way about me he doesnt even like me enought to give me a chance and that hurts. i work with him and that makes things even worse. my life continues to go on but my heart stops beating. i dont know what to do i just want my heart to stop hurting and for someone to love me as much i as i love them.
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Honestly, the best way to get oveR someone is to find someone new. Though unfoRtunate.. it's tRuthful: you can not *MAKE* someone 'love', you; you Really can't. And while it may be difficult and cRushing, you'll saddly just have to Respect and accept his feelings. Then you must tRy to move on. I undeRstand that you may not WANT TO, but think of it this way: what's the point in staying hooked on him? What's the point in hoping foR a Relationship with someone who doesn't feel the same way about YOU as you do foR THEM.. and who isn't willing to give theiR 100% commitment to the Relationship? It's all RatheR unfaiR to youRself. You honestly need to accept this blow, put it immediately behind you, and keep tRuckin' on. I wish you all the best. Hopefully I have been of at least SOME help heRe. :)
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Sounds like the classic love heartache to me. To tell a person that you love them takes a lot of courage, which is a very great quality when going out or wanting to go out with a guy. So what if the first person you loved didn't work out for you? There are many more guys that will come into your life. If you feel that bad about it, you need to talk to him again, at least to get things cleared up. Think about something else, think about your friends, a favorite band, or movie, just to get your mind off of that guy. You heart will long for something else if you just give it time. There are millions of guys on every continent in the world, I am positive there is one right for you somewhere, you just need to be patient.
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You have already been in love twice and both times these guys have not felt the same. First of all, you need to realize that you _will_ find somone who will love you as much as you love them. You also have to recognize this pattern. Is there anything you could have done from preventing it getting to this point (read: deep love)? Some noncomital dating will definatly open your eyes to the hundreds of other guys out there. These are guys who are like you-- also looking for love. So whenever you are ready look for accessible dates and fun times. Go out and have fun, and don't look for love, it will find you.
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I know its hard, but that's one of the many traumas of life. Im guessing your high school age? You have so much time to find someone to be with for the rest of your life. And i personally believe there's someone out there for everyone. You just have to keep going out and meeting new people, not many guys in high school are ready for a serious relationship. Find some hobbies to keep your mind off him, and don't let him drag you done, EVER. Good luck.
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