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confused...
the guy i like said he wanted to get closer to me, but the only way he could do so, is if i told him what i was thinking instead of telling him nothingall the time.. what does this mean?!
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He wants you to open up to him. Maybe he feels you are holding back about some things, and being secretive. And at some time, this can be something guys like. A little mystery is a good thing. But if you keep not telling him things, he's going to think that you are messing with his mind. And no one likes that. Plus, guys have insecurities just like girls. He might be totally open with you about something, and when he opens up, he wants you to open up too. Everyone wonders what their other partner is thinking and feeling. When they don't know it makes them insecure about the relationship. They may feel a certain way about the person, but since their partner is so quiet about what they are thinking and feeling, how do they know that the other person feels the same way? Exactly my point. Just open up to him. Let him know you trust him. Tell him something you have never told anyone before. It'll make him feel that you want to get closer to him and let him into your life. ~Sherah
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When you two are together does he do all the talking? I think he's trying to tell you that maybe you should open up and talk to him a little more. :)
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yea my boyfriend does the same thing, basically you have to tell him what your thinking because he really does want to hear it even if you think he doesnt want to besides you have nothing to lose if you really like him and want to get close with him you should be yourself and part of being yourself has to do with what your thinking. I know you hate doing it but just tell him what you want to say
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It means when he asks you what you're thinking you say nothing. Thats what that means. Even a Sped could have pointed that out.
Hes asking you what you're thinking because you're too stupid to even realise what hes acutally saying and what it means.
He is asking you that to see if you think anything in that empty skull of yours. Just to make sure he doesnt go out with an idiot.
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the more uncomfortable the situation the more nessicary the conversation. depending on the amont of time your dating him should give you a better idea if he is for real about wanting to know whats goin on but if hes some weird guy tell him to back off just use your judgment and if he is worthy and trying his best do what you can to help him.
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Your question is kinda confusing.
If you "tell him nothing" as in not talk, then it is pretty hard to "get closer", as in geting to know each other. You need to communicate.
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It means that the guy is interested in you as well but at the moment he feels like you are holding your feelings, thoughts, and/or emotions back from him. It means that he wants/needs you to open up so he can as well and so he can get to kbow you better. It's not a bad thing, it's just going to take a little effort on your part. But, once you do this, he will most likely be able to open up more as well. It may be something that is hard for you, but just trust that it'll be okay. So, start telling him stuff, (ie: the emotions you feel, random thoughts) just anything to get y'all going. :)
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I think this means that this guy is trying to find out more about you by you telling every little thing taht you are thinking. this may work in some cases but i think if he asks you what you are thinking soemtimes, tell him. and if you dont feel like telling him something that you are thinking then make him wodner, it makes them think more and try harder to get to know you, like be sort of mysterious.
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