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I have this friend that died and I thought it was partly my fault and then her mom came to my house and told me that it was her other friend's fault. Lets just call her Mary Jane. Now Kylie(Dead Friend) had been hanging around with Mary Jane a lot and nobody knew about it. I used to feel sorry for Kylie and her family, and sometimes myself. But now I'm mad at her. It's starting to scare me bercause, how can I be SO angry and a 13 year old girl who died in a car crash?
**(((Mandy)))**
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yeah how could you shes dead thats really stupid your mad at a dead person
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It's okay to be angry, but I think you are talking her smoking a lot. If that's the case then be angry, your friend was young and didn't need to be smokin or doing anything wrong. But you couldn't have known. It's better to be angry then to feel nothing. Your young and you'll learn to come to terms with how she died and who's at fault. Until then keep feelings things, b/c it's better to feel something bad and angry then to feel nothing at all.
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now, dont get me wrong. i think you might bee getting your feelings mixed up. you probably have a lot of feelings inside of you, and cant get them straight. so let me get this straight. Kylie was hanging out with Mary Jane, and no one knew about it. And you felt sorry for kylie and her family some times. And kylie died. well how did she die? how did you have something to do with it? how did Mary jane have anything to do with it.
You shouldn't be mad at Kylie, you should be mad at anyone. She died, every one has a point in time when they are supposed to die, that was her time. Now you know she lived her life well, and she finished her task in life, and is now up above watching you, making your life better.
Now that she is gone, you always have some one to talk to, any time, all the time. just close your eyes, and she will be with you.
hope i did help, i am really sorry about your friend.
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how partly was your fault?
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maybe you're depressed that she died and you don't really know how to handle it so you get mad at her for dieing.
It happens alot when a friend dies. Usually the people who new them really well dont know how to react and so they get mad at them. But all i can say is dont blame her because it probably wasnt her fault and dont be mad at her.
h.i.h.
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Anger is just part of the grieving process. It's hard to understand but it is. Your angry at Kylie because she is gone. And maybe it could have been diffrent. But we can't live thinking of what might have been IF ONLY. Know what I mean? Anyway, it's perfectly normal.
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sometimes u get so sad until u get real angry
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by mary jane you mean she smoked a lot of pot, right?
not your fault.
-hitler
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Well view it like this. You can be mad all you want and that person cant affect you anymore. So cuss em out all you want.
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