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Okay today I called a "best friend" to see if she wanted to do anything becasue she aslways calls me with plans. She had another line and accidently forgot to press flash so she thought she was talking to one of her other friends. She was making fun of me and she made me look like a total idiot then shes like h.o god shes on the other line and she switched over and i didnt say anythign i held my hand over the phone so she wouldnt hear anything and i did that as she was saying hello over and over agian.. once she hung up i did and she called back she made up some lame excuse saying it was her sisters b-day and she would call me back with something to do around 3.. i dont know what to do i cant just switch firneds becasue i have always wanted to be firnedes with who i am firneds with now.
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Then you better confront her. Tell her what happened and yell her you want an explanation.Hope she gives you a good one! I don't know if i'd want to remain friends with her myself.Good luck:}
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why do you do that?
she's obviously a back stabbing biatch.
don't be so available for her. she doesn't know the first thing about being a friend.
a real friend would never talk about you behind your back. fer real.
you can do what you want, but i think you should leave this girl alone. and whatever you do...don't tell her anything personal she can use against you when your no longer friends...which i predict is gonna be soon
hugs and kisses
_Granny
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Ok, first of all, you shouldn't use the term <b>"best-friend"</b> when referring to this <b>"faux friend"</b>. She has <b>no resepect</b> what-so-ever for you or your feelings. This matter shouldn't be let go, but you can go about exposing her snide remarks in a mature, but yet in-your-face, manner. By letting her get away with what she said about you, you are only letting yourself down. When, or <b>if</b>, she calls you back, let her know that when she tried to switch over on her call-waiting that she didn't do it properly. That you heard everything she said about you and that you would appreciate it if from now on, she could come to you with a problem or at least stop talking about you behind your back like a child. You can still be friends with other people and just regard her as an associate. Don't bother calling her or trying to make plans with her from now on, because now you know how she really perceives you. Put your efforts into another friendship and regard her <b>"faux-friendship"</b> as her lost.
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Wow, she doesnt seem like that great of a friend to me. Although alot of people actually talk about thier friends behind their back( i mean c'mon havnt you done it at least once) i think she went a little to far. Dont embarass her just becuase she did something to you. Talk to her about it and then see what happens from there. If your really nervous about confronting her then call her up and talk about it over the phone or online (but in person would probably be the best)....If it ever happens again, Find some new friends b/c it seems like the one you have now is truly a bitch.
Hope this helps......
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Its spelt 'friends' not 'firneds'.
Also, it sounds like she doesn't like you, so find some new friends.
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Okay. You seriously need to give it to this girl. When you two are running in track bring out your camera phone and rip her pants down to her ankles! rip everything waist down and pull it to her ankles. THen snap a picture of it. Then show all the guys in school. Once thats done upload it to a website and distribute it across the internet. Thats some awesome revenge.
If you dont wanna do that.
GO over to her house and take a dump in that thing above her toilet, the thing with all the pumps and the lid that covers it. Her bathroom will smell real bad and she'll never check there.
IF you dont wanna do that
Wear a belt and start whipping her.
if you dont wanna do that
Act Bi and act totally into her.
She'll never talk to you again.
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When she calls back, you should tell her that you know about the things that she said about you and explain what happened with the phone. Tell her that you're hurt that she would say those things about you and make you look like an idiot but that you still want to be friends. If she's worth keeping as a friend she'll apologize and stop doing that. If not, then it looks like you really need to rind better friends. Good luck and Hope I helped!
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It looks to me like she isnt a friend at all if shes going to try to talk bad about you behind your back. That is not what you call a friend, a friend is someone who would never backstab you, talk bad about you behind your back and will always be there for you no matter what. But if I hadof heard mty friend saying that while she thought she was talking to someone else I would be so mad because thats just not even right. Have a talk with her and tell her that shes not even right for the things that she said and tell her you heard every word but i'm being totally honest with you...You dont need a friend like that because their not a friend at all. sorry to say that but its the truth! Hope this helps. -NikNik
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anonymous -
I'm a little confused, what's a firned? I'm guessing you don't mean friend cuz you spelled it correctly up there...so clue me in?
But with your situation, she doesn't sound like a real friend so just drop her. Ask yourself why you're tolerating this? She's not worth your time if she's going to talk shit about you behind your back. Although you have always wanted to be "firnedes" with whoever, tell me why? I'm hoping it's not for the possible status of being popular cuz hun, she's a bitch regardless of how much you try to defend her.
Confront her about the incident and tell her you're moving on.
Good luck.
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