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Member Since: March 25, 2005
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Last Update: March 25, 2005
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So, I have this friend, and everyone in our "group" is getting SOOOO annoyed with her! All she does is complain, and when one of us says WOW SHUT UP! she just flips out and walks away. We all love her, best friends and whatnot. But ALL SHE DOES IS WHINE LIKE A BABY!!!! Like about her b/f of almost one year and they haven't made out yet. But most of us think she does it for attention. We don't know how to tell her to stop with out hurting her feelings. and she always always calls someone a b!tch or a wh0re , and everyone is sick of her. What should we do?? (link)
You need to talk to her about it PRIVATLY so she doesnt feel embarassed. And tell her everything you just told us and how it bothers you.
Hope this helps...


OK, so I have this friend who is being mean. Ever since these two new girls came into our class, she has been hanging out with them. I am always left out and she makes me feel SO unimportant. I have tried to tell her about it, but she doesn't do anything about it. I mean she was a great friend, and I don't want to tell her that we can't be friends anymore because she has hurt me way too much. What should I do????? (link)
She doesnt seem like that great of a friend if she ignores you. I say, see what happens if you just ignore her for a little while.


Okay today I called a "best friend" to see if she wanted to do anything becasue she aslways calls me with plans. She had another line and accidently forgot to press flash so she thought she was talking to one of her other friends. She was making fun of me and she made me look like a total idiot then shes like h.o god shes on the other line and she switched over and i didnt say anythign i held my hand over the phone so she wouldnt hear anything and i did that as she was saying hello over and over agian.. once she hung up i did and she called back she made up some lame excuse saying it was her sisters b-day and she would call me back with something to do around 3.. i dont know what to do i cant just switch firneds becasue i have always wanted to be firnedes with who i am firneds with now. (link)
Wow, she doesnt seem like that great of a friend to me. Although alot of people actually talk about thier friends behind their back( i mean c'mon havnt you done it at least once) i think she went a little to far. Dont embarass her just becuase she did something to you. Talk to her about it and then see what happens from there. If your really nervous about confronting her then call her up and talk about it over the phone or online (but in person would probably be the best)....If it ever happens again, Find some new friends b/c it seems like the one you have now is truly a bitch.
Hope this helps......




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