OK, so I have this friend who is being mean. Ever since these two new girls came into our class, she has been hanging out with them. I am always left out and she makes me feel SO unimportant. I have tried to tell her about it, but she doesn't do anything about it. I mean she was a great friend, and I don't want to tell her that we can't be friends anymore because she has hurt me way too much. What should I do?????
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? xXsnuffel08Xx answered Friday March 25 2005, 5:57 pm: Hmmm... youve deffinately godda sit her down and have a talk with her. Try and talk to her alone tho or in private that way you wont get distracted by anything else. And tell her how u feel and be like well your rly hurting me and making me feel left out and your one of my good friends and i dont want to loose you over this. Or maybe shes mad at you for somereason cuzz thats happened to me before, one of my friends was mad at me and just started to completly ignore me. Well, if she still dosent listen after you talk with her then if it was me id say you were better off with out her beacuse good friends should listen to each other and not make one another hurt on purpose. I hope i helped... good luck! [ xXsnuffel08Xx's advice column | Ask xXsnuffel08Xx A Question ]
Sam15 answered Friday March 25 2005, 2:47 pm: She doesnt seem like that great of a friend if she ignores you. I say, see what happens if you just ignore her for a little while. [ Sam15's advice column | Ask Sam15 A Question ]
xOtWiXi answered Friday March 25 2005, 11:02 am: Just tell her what you just told us ♥ It's hard to actually do it, but once its done you will feel so much better, believe me. [ xOtWiXi's advice column | Ask xOtWiXi A Question ]
lostinside answered Friday March 25 2005, 10:11 am: I would try talking to her again, but if it doesn't work, I would try finding new friends. You don't deserve to be treated that way by your "friend". You could try saying to her "I think we've both changed, and our friendship isn't working out" or something like that. But she really doesn't seem like a good friend, and I think you deserve better friends than her! You can IM me anytime if you'd like!
BeFABULOUSxo answered Friday March 25 2005, 10:07 am: Tell her that you miss hangin out with her. Do stuff with her that you used to do together. Remind her about how much fun you guys had. But if she treats you like dirt and shes making you upset, tell her that. The only way she'll change is if she knows whats bothering you. xO ali [ BeFABULOUSxo's advice column | Ask BeFABULOUSxo A Question ]
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