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how do i get a guy...again?
i like a guy who is a year older than me. He's amazingly cute and a lot of girls like him. at the beginning of this year we saw each other at these student forum meetings at school and he always came and sat by me and talked and smiled-i could tell he liked me so at the homecoming dance i asked him to dance and it was great- at school we usually just say hi and smile in a flirtacious way during passing periods-but lately we don't say anything and i don't think he likes me anymore-how do i get his attention and get him to like me again?
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talk to him again. don't wait for him to start everything, or else you won't get him. some guys like it when the girl makes the effort to say hi or start a conversation. try it, see what happens.
hope i helped.
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See if you can catch him in a passing period and ask him if he's okay and/or if you did anything wrong seeing as he's not smiling nor saying hey to you anymore.
♥Em
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Dear How do i get a guy, again,
You need to put yourself out there. In my experience, guys really arent that smart when it comes to these things. There are ways for you to make the first move without him even realizing it. Start a conversation with him using humor as your weapon and if he says something funny reach out and brush his arm or lean into him. Before you know it he's asking you out. Wont even know what hit him. Men love the attention like we do but you have to treat them different. Be a great listener and show him you care what he thinks and his opinions. Boost his confindence and ego when you get the chance. Just be carefull not to be to nice. If this turns into a relationship in the end you dont want him thinking he can walk all over him. The main thing to do is start with a friendship and show him your a caring and interested individual. Luann
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Start talking to him again! Be yourself. When you see him say hi and always keep in touch. Once you guys start talking again invite him to the movies or to go somewhere with you. He liked you once and I`m sure he will still like you. x0 ` __
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You better go chase him down and talk to him! I don't think he stopped liking you just like that!
Don't just smile say something! Anything! He may think you don't like him. Might be shy or something.Invite him to a movie! I think he will accept:}
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He's probably wondering what happened. the chase may have been too long and he took all your flirting for just flirting and nothing more. you may need to drop a hint that you want more. maybe go bold and ask him out for an evening. you'll find that a lot of guys respond better if the girl makes the first move because they know that you are interested in them. Be careful not to make it too casual if you want a relationship. guys dont always respond to the "obvious" little hints we drop.
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You shouldn't really try asking how to get him to flirt with you again, maybe the question is 'why?'. Did your schedules change? Did something happen in any of your families? Is there a new student, a girl? Maybe you could figure out what exactly changed and if you still don't come up with anything, try talking to him, and asking him what happened, I think he owes you an explaination, try not taking, "I don't know' for an answer, just say, "hey, if you aren't interested in me at all anymore, then just tell me, I don't want to keep wondering, so give me the truth." You get his attention by talking to him.
-Theteengirl
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Just talk to him. Be like "Hey, havent talked to you in a while. How are you? What have you been up to?" Thats nice and friendly :) And when you start talking try to invite him to the movies or mall with a bunch of your friends or something. So your not really asking him out on a date, its a group date.
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