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how do you kiss...
my boyfriend is really sweet and thoughtful of what he does. so before he kissed me, he asked if it would be ok. and i said it would. so now he wants to kiss me. but the only thing is...it's my first kiss and i don't know how. please help. it might sound kinda stupid but i need to know how. thanks in advance!
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well it is natural and he can teach without you askin him lol but yeah it isnt hard dont worry you wont mess up or nothing =)
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Everyone gets a little freaked out and nervous about the first kiss (i know i did) but believe me when i tell you it all comes natural! The first kiss isnt going to be a hollywood kiss you see in the movies...you get better at kissing as you do it more! If you remember the basics like keep your breath clean and wear some chapstick...your going to be fine. Dont kiss him too intensely on the first kiss..take it slow. Once your lips meet..all the nervousness will go away..and its going to be amazing trust me. It comes naturally! Kiss him lightly on the lips..then as the kiss progresses you can maybe put your arms around him or in his hair. Your gonna be great dont worry!
-meliss
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This is really exciting! Be glad you have such a sweet boyfriend and here are some basic guidelines to help you through that scary first kiss:
1) Relax. Remember that first kisses are hardly perfect and just let yourself ease into it. Enjoy the moment.
2) Make sure your teeth are brushed and you're not weary any lip gloss that is too gooey. Some chapstick or something is fine, just not lipstick or anything with pigment. He wants to kiss you, not get made up in the process!
3) Let him know you're ready and look for which way he is tilting his head. Go the opposite way to keep your noses from bumping.
4) Open your lips just the tiniest big and softly press them to his. Play around with the feeling of it: brush your lips together, try easing the very tip of your tongue into his mouth and see how he responds, and if you're really brave give his bottom lip a very very gentle nibble.
Kissing is something that is hard to begin the very first time but you'll find that you will very easily get the hang of it once your lips are actually touching. Just let the moment happen, remember not to droll on him (swallow ocassionally!!), and don't be too aggresive at first and see what happens!
A great site with tons of tips and other great kissing stuff is [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) . Check it out!
Have fun smooching!
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The best way to learn is to actually watch people do it. Sometimes on television or if any of your friends that you trust are kissing their boyfriends can give you a demonstation. The best thing to do is be honest with your boyfriend and see if he can help show you, if he hasn't before than you two can watch your friends and practice. The first kiss is important but not the crucial one. It's the tender ones you cultivate and you will know which ones are those.
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Thats not stupid. I havn't even kissed and you know why I'm not worried anymore? Because I know that when I meet the special person I'll love, he will know I've never been kissed and he will be willing to show me. Guys love to give girls their first kiss, and they love to be the girls first to have sex with them, and if they don't love that, then hes not the guy for you, there was a first time for him too, so he should be ok with you not having your first at things yet, you should tell him that maybe, if hes sweet, he'll understand. And I hope your first kiss goes well, congradualations.
-TheTeenGirl
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