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i'm in love with a guy whose a hindu and i'm a christian i love him a lot he love me to but his saying his parents won't allow what should i do?i'm 20 his 22
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he could be a terrorist! i would rethink that big timE!
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Sometimes differences in religion are too great. It hurts, but maybe the only thing to do is move on.
I hope you don't have to resort to that, and good luck.
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dont let ur parents stop u from loving discuss it with them
xox britt
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if you love him and he loves you, you shouldn't let his parents top you. who are they to say you can't be together. sorry no disrespect to his parents but honestly who are they to say you can't go out. and if he really loves you he will disobey his parents and start going out with you.
*BeSs*
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You just follow your heart. If you both love eachother that much, then nothing can come between you two. Stay together. Maybe the two of you can have a talk with his parents and your parents, tell them how you feel about eachother. *goodluck*
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well, if you guys are 20 and 22, your adults. you dont need your parents to tell you who to love, infact no one can tell you who to love. if your sure its love, then make it work. hang out with eachother, just not at eachothers houses. go on group dates instead of alone so it wont seem to your parents that your spending too much time with just him.
-kristin
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his parents dont have control over him hes 22.
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If you really truly love him then you will find a way between you.
Have you actually both sat down infront of both of your parents and explained the way you feel about each other?
If not do this.
I understand how strict Hindu families are, one of my close frinds is Hindu and in love with a "white boy" and they were really against the idea at first but one they had sat down and talked to both sets of parent they realised that their children were both happy, and lets face it, that's all that most people want for their kids.
If they will not let you sit and talk with them then write them a letter.
Another option is one of you converting to the others religion.
Obviously this would have to be a mutual agreement and in honesty I personally would never dchange my beliefs to fit in with antoher persons family (cos it's not like he has a problem with you being from a different religion)
You said that you're parents think you are just friend. Would they react badly if you told them?
At the end of the day you are both adults and are capable of making your own decisions.
It looks like you have both made your decision, that you want to be together. And if you do, then yeah your families can make life hard for you but they will only succeed in pushing you closer together.
Good luck to both of you and let me know what happens!!
Take care & be happy!!
Melanie
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