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I am dating a guy.. and hes going to a private school next year... and we really love eachother.. but the private school hes going to isolates him.. right now were not even at the same school.. hes in one highschool in our town and im in the other.. and were fine.. but next year im not even going to be able talk to him at all.. because he even has school on Saturdays.. :-/ I dont want to lose him..we have been best friends for 3 years and we have dated on and off in the past and were dating now... im afraid hes going to get over me and move on.. and i don't want him too.. i really love him alot.. and he loves me too.. but theres no way we can be together next year.. should I just get over him now and move on starting now.. or what?
sorry its so long :-/ any advice would be well appreciated.... I'll rate :)
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If both of you really want this to work out, then both of you will find time to see or talk to eachother. You could ask to talk til 10:30 on the phone? Since you'll be one year older, your curfew should go up to! Does he have to spend the every sunday with his mom? Or dad? Or can he sacrifice<--spellin) 1 day? Honestly, try to find ways to spend time, but if that's too hard, maybe you should find someone else? *goodluck*
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I read your post and didn't really find anything peculiar about it until you got to the "im afraid hes going to get over me and move on..." etc. Look you can still be friends and e-mail. But the truth about life which you are learning right now is that people are replaceable. It's just how it is. You'll go to college and you're high school friends who seem closer then family will be more distant and eventually you'll stop talking to them. When you leave college you're inseperable college friends will disappear as you get further away from college. If you move from one town to another or change jobs again it'll happen. If you get married then your whole life changes and you won't have as much time to spend with friends so only the closest remain. It's just a simple fact of life. The people whom you associate with right now you may not even talk to 10 years from now. It's just how life is. So he's going away, ah such is life. The getting over you, and all that stuff sounds a little troubling. It's not about owning another person or wanting them to feel a certain way. We have no control over others. The only person you control is you. Furthermore if you're a healthy individual you can be without anyone for a year and it's no problem. Just be yourself. Get over him now. Just be with you, it's all you need. When the right time comes whether it's him or somebody else you'll have a boyfriend in your life. Hope I was helpful. That's my advice.
John
(bobcohen5309@yahoo.com)
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i really think you should follow your heart.. move to the school with him.. or dont.. if things dont work out while he is in private skool then call it quits.. and talk to him about it
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try and talk to him about it!!! it is the best way to solve things! if he is willing to make it work than you should be too! but if he wants a brake then try and find someone better!!!
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if you were meant to be love will find a way-
talk to God or Jesus for advice- read the bible on the subject!!
You'd be supprised!
:)
xoxo-
Kels!
always here for ya!
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If you really love each other then you shuold have faith him. How can someone forget they are in love? I have a friend that is going out with one of the forgien exchange students, shes kinda bummed about the end of school coming up cause she still wants to see him. and if a relationship can last over seas surely it can last a private school.
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Well I am going out with a guy that goes to a different school than I do. And we hardly ever see eachother but when we do I love it. We always have a blast. I would rather you try and work it out insted of just throwing it all away because you may think you will never see him again, or not as often as you used to. But its your choice I am just here to try to help. But I do wish you the best! <3 I would like to know what else happens or if it gets hard and you need someone to talk to just email me blondehottie@gmail.com oor IM me on aim at hanna3713!
-hanna *MWAH*
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no, you shouldnt brake up! you can make sure to try go out with him somewhere every weekend to keep in touch. even if its a half hour trip to the ice cream shop you can still have quality time together. also talk on the phone a lot and if you have aim thats good too. by being in separate schools, your relationship is going to get stronger and nothing, not even separate schools, should be the reason to brake you two apart. you can also do special things for him like drop by after school when hes not there and put a love note in his locker. good luck to the both of you and i hope i could help!
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NO! If you love him and he loves you back, don't let long distance split you up. What 'bout Sundays? Maybe you can plan a special day each week where you go on a date and go out, JUST the TWO of you. If there is really no time you can see him, try e-mail, aim, or phone! Hope I helped!
~K~
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