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my friend always steals my friends. like just recently i started talking to this girl anna* and she goes and starts talking to her and they are good friends..well sorta and it pisses me off! and last year i met this guy jack* and we became BEST friends (still are) and whoa hey, shes friends with him all of a sudden! wow! what a surprise..not! ugh i know i sound selfish but it annoys me..like she has to have everythign i have and its starting to get to me! plz help<3333 or IM me!!!!! crazybutxcool
*=fake names..i dont drop real ones :P
i love everyone who helps! ;D
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I know how you feel like shes better then you and everyone likes ehr better then you even though they kenw you longer its happened to me plenty of times . T alk to ehr and tell her how you fell she sould understand and i know you fell like ur being shelfish but if you talk to ehr and she reacts meanly shes the one being slefish not you! Hope i helped byeZ!
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Well, I suggest to go by either of these three options:
Joke about how coincidental that is how when you become friends with someone, she becomes friends with them too.
Pretend to become friends with a big nerd or loser. She'll eventually follow up, as expected, then you can have a big laugh.
Do nothing. She obviously likes you so much she'll befriend other people you like so she can get along with them so she can be close to you! Be flattered!
Either of those three options should work.
Love, Annie
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You need to confront this girl and find out what exactly her problem is !!! Maybe she is insecure about herself or maybe she feels she is better than you are !!!
This has happened 2 me b4 !!! Quite a while ago I might add. But now I am able to make my own friends and keep them. You need to find that something in yourself that shouts indeviduality & what nobody else has !!! you might not find this until later on in your life but hey but that's not such a bad thing.
good luck to you girl
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I have a close friend in the same situation. First of all its not too hard to figure out, you have a stalker on your hands. Tell them how you feel and see if they have a good excuse for it. If they don't I would do anything I could to make thier life miserable. But mainly tell them how you feel.
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Wow thats really mean of her well maybe she feels left out that you are going to hang out with somebody else but her. Maybe you should talk to her and ask her if she doesnt mind backing off but say it nicely. Good luck and im sorry about her. <3 American Girl
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Ok, first.. if you know your selfish, and I think you are selfish.. most likely, you are acting sorta selfish. Why can't she have friends like you? I mean.. seriously, just because she is friends with your friends.. that's a bad thing? That means that you don't have any conflict between them.. it could be worse, if your friend hated eachother you would be more torn than brought together.. be thankful.. geez.
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The same thing happens to me but realli its no big deal. Its not like you totally own those ppl they r free to have other friends too. If it realli bothers you that much let your friend kno. It seems like you want to meet other ppl. If you dont talk to your friend they will never get the message that this bothers you. Maybe your friend wants to be like you i have a friend like that, just try to do your own thing and im not saying ignore her but have you time without her. Maybe they will then get the vibe you dont like having a twin that is exactly like you same friends and all.
i hope i helped
-missy-
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I think maybe she feels it would start a conflict if they didnt like eachother. You usually hear problems about people whose friends DONT like eachother. Just think of it this way, your friends like eachother, they arent going to try to tear you apart. I would try and look on the brigthside, and if that doesnt help the least bit, talk to your friend about. Maybe she'll understand. Just dont yell at her, then she'll think your being too possesive. Which your not.
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♥ Michelle!
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