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Question Posted Friday January 14 2005, 8:08 pm

I have two friends, or I think they are my two friends.. they are always leaving me out.. like I'm just there for a good laugh or two everyonce in a while but they can cast me aside like an old toy that's lost it's shine. Everytime I make a friend I'm either left for someone else or end up giving up on the whole thing entirely. When they are around me they act like I am their sister or something.. but then they will go off to do things alone.. and they never invite me. I always invite my friends other friend, I always try and include them.. but no.. I'm the third wheel all the time.. v_v I need some help on what to do.. do I stay with my friends.. or should I try and find some new ones..

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Manulo answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 12:26 am:
Sometimes you need to talk with your friends and let them know how you feel. These two friends may feel that you don't like to do the things they are doing and are leaving you out because they don't want to burden you. If you talk to them and see, maybe you can do more things together that you all like.

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Allie1 answered Tuesday January 18 2005, 10:43 pm:
These girls don't appreciate you. And you shouldn't let them make you feel like this. Move on to some new friends. Find some that deserve you. Maybe your old friends will miss you and be willing to change their ways. But if not, you've got a whole new group of friends who are sweet to you.
Good luck!

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spohnsara answered Tuesday January 18 2005, 1:35 pm:
you sholed find som new frends kos thay just dont want you to be any onealses frend and if thay are like that than thay dont desarv shosh a cool frend like you thay ned som wone like them

sansarly sara spohn

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xASH answered Sunday January 16 2005, 9:56 pm:
Do both. Meet new people, maybe this time you'll find people who will appreciate you and like having you around. But you should still try to talk to your old "friends". tell them how you feel. maybe they don't know the way you feel

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qotsa369 answered Sunday January 16 2005, 12:00 am:
I had the same problem, and I just ditched my old friends and got new ones.

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claire_p answered Saturday January 15 2005, 9:51 am:
I have been in the same situation, and I found that I just had to be ruthless! I told them exactly how I felt, and they said they understood and then they apologised. Unfortunately, not much changed, so I made new friends and now I'm really happy. So my advice would be to tell them how you feel, and if nothing changes then lose them - they obviously aren't worth your while if they don't change how they treat you once they know how you feel.

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mrs.rumore answered Friday January 14 2005, 9:07 pm:
just remember three NEVER works,but you can naver have too many friends just stay friends with the other two but make some new ones and get to know them real good,hope i helped please rate ~~hollan~~

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lildiamyn_69 answered Friday January 14 2005, 8:31 pm:
Well, if you're not happy, try and find some new friends. But first: are you quiet all the time? or do you try to talk and say your share and no one listens? If you are quiet, you should try to talk up and get involved in conversations. If you do talk up, but are never heard, then you need to find some better friends because obviously they don't value the "friendship" between you and them like they do the friendship between each other.

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