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friend? or not? please help!
ok i have this friend... and she and used to have looads of fun together and she was someone i could act silly with ya know? but on halloween i asked her if she wanted to hang out and she said she couldnt because she had to "pass out candy" then later i found out that AFTER i asked her, her other friend asked her to hang out and she said yes... hmm a little suspicious? so i got over that but then last tuesday (the tuesday b4 thanxgiving) i asked her if she wanted to go see a movie on wednesday at like 2:30ish.. and she said that her dad couldnt take us or pick us up and neither could her mom... so i was like ok whatever i didnt really care.. but then the next day (wednesday) she said she was going bowling at 2:30! so i was lke well how are you getting there? and shes like oo my dads taking me and then my moms bringing me home at 4... whats up with that??? yea i forgave her once (is that correct grammar?) and now she ditches me again?? i dont think so... what should i do? is she a real friend?? and dont say "well try talking to her" because i tried that and she made up all these stupid excuses... i mean i want to be her friend but not if she treats me like this... any suggestions?
-help!
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i dont think that she like you , i think that she doesnt like you but when you are around she acts like she like you. do you no wat i mean? i had a friend like that and i found out after all this time she was just using me. you have to watch out for those kind of people. i got over it and you should to. ~*L*~
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i dont think she's a gd fren towards you..i mean she is lying to you. i think you should find new frens and hang out with these ppl often and see if she gets jealous.if she does,tell her that she did the same to ya on halloween and see what she has to say.if she doesnt get jealous,it shows that she has moved on.and you should too.forget about her and start a new life wif ur new buds! hope my suggestion helped u! gd luck!
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Maybe she doesn't like you.
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it seems as though she isn't a very good friend. i understand letting it slide once MAYBE twice. but that seems a little fishy. and it seems like she doesn't even care if you know. it's like she's not trying to hide it from you. maybe she wants you to figure out she doesn't like you? i don't know how close of a friend it is. if it's not a very close friend i'd just back off a little bit.
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im not gonna tell ya "try talking to her" because if shes telling you bulshit then thats gonna do nothing! you gotta tell her strait out your being gay and i wanna know what the hell is up b/c you keep ditching me.. if you find out that she really is ditching you i say you just slap her.. if shes not just ditching you and the excuse sounds real then believe her but if it happens again dump that bitch on the curve! dont waste your time on a girl thats saupposed to be your "friend" and blows you off.. go find otha people to chill with.. theres a hell of a lot of other girls out there.. hope it helps x33always me*
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I think either she is mad at you for something and doesn't want to tell you or she is just tired of hanging out with you all the time. No, I don't think you should talk to her about it again, but what I do think you should do is quit inviting her to hang out and just ask other people and see what she does and if she asks you to hang out then do what she did and just tell her that that was the exact same way she treated you. -Kayla
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I agree with most of the people here, this is not a real friend. Anytime a "friend" lies to you one has to question how true the friendship actually is.
My advice is to stop calling her. After some time, she will very probably approach you. Then you have to decide whether to kick her to the curb, or to confront her directly. If you choose to confront her, and you make some progress, make sure she understands that next time she lies you really will stop being friends for good.
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maybe she's mad for some reason...if she won't answer you honestly, try getting one of your other friends to talk to her about it.
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I thin kthere is only one way to really handel this siuation... sicne ovbiously she isnt a very goof friend... Talk to her AGAIN okay if it doesnt work tell ehr exactly what you told us and go with what happeneds.
-beccers_boo
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Yeah...
Um. That doesn't sound like a friend to me. Maybe she wants space...Do you hang out w/ her 24/7? If not, then she's no friend. She drifting away.
It sux to loose a friend. Try and keep this one strong.
~Laish
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