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my girl and my parents
(m/14)Ok, I'm going out with this girl, we've been going out for a little over a month now.. shes awesome, I like her a lot.. but unfortunately my parents don't. They really don't want me to have a girlfriend at all, especailly one like her they say. I mean she is a little wild sometimes, but I like that about her, but my parents don't. They want me to break up with her soon, and they're pressuring me to do it everyday. I want more of a long relationship with the girl.. but I don't want love. In my opinion, nothing good can come from love at this time in life. So do I stand up to my parents and tell them I won't break up with her?.. or take their advice and break up with her before this relationship turns into love? thanks
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Your right, sometimes theres more hurt then good, when it comes to love, but if you love them its worth the pain......With that said, i would tell your paretns that they dont have to trust or like her, they have to trust you, and tell them you know your limits and wrong from right, and just let them know you got thigs under control, and make a point that you care about her, maybe not love her, but care about her, and if it does end turing into love, you wont regret it! Hope I helped!! And dont break her heart!! Tell me how thigns go!!!
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You can't avoid love...dont break up with her!Dont tell her your parents hate her either! I know how bad that hurts...you might mean more to her than you know. Follow your heart (yes i said heart!!)-EmmaLee
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...i hve always heard tht u shouldn't stay w/ the same person for more than 6 months..but who am i to no if u truly think tht u will not be able to live life w/out her then stay w/ her but if u do think u will be ok then go ahead and take a break cus u might not hve as much pressure..believe me i no how it is being 14 and having pressure..just follow ure heart!GoOd lUcK!
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what do you feel?
how do you want things to work out with her?
you have to think about these things before you make any decisions, because it could be the wrong one and you can never go back after that.
s0o0o..have you talked to ur gf about what ur parents think?
do that first, and then work from there, and w/e you feel is best, go with what ur heart says =)
if you really love the girl, then you'll stay with her. but if you take ur parents advice, things might not be so easy on you...
hope i helped, if you need anymore, just ask me and go to my advice page =)
much love,
~*rachel*~
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its you not your parents that are going out with her . make your own decision go out with her if youre sure that you like her alot
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if you dont want love then take their advice because sooner or later the girl will want love. most likely sooner. if youre not rady for that then you should take your parents advice. but if you decide you want love then stand up for yourself and stay with her.
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This happens all the time. But really, usually your parents always turn out to be right because think about it, they ONLY want the absolute best for you, and they see this relationship far from tha best you know? I totally know that its way easier said than done. I really wouldn't break up with her unless you see that its not good for you. If you see that its not good for you, then I would break it off, even if it would be hard. You got to sort out the good stuff out of the relationship, and the bad..If the bad overrides the good,then you know what to do, but if they good overrides the bad, then I would sit down with your parents and talk to them and tell them that its nothing at all serious and its just a casual gf, bf thing.. I know that you do want a serious relationship, but thats something to your just going to have to hide from your parents if you do decide to stay with her...good luck,
love kristin
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well i think you should stand up to them and tell them how you feel and that you dont want to break up with her and its not their decision. also with your whole love theory i dont think thats necissarily true i mean theres different kinds of love theres love of friends true love that youll love them for ever and just love you think you have for someone ... but when you do love someone .. a person you like .. it builds you up for greater challenges in life and helps you with them. i hope you change your mind about the whole love theory and good luck with your parents. i think if you really like her then date her its you dating her not them. hope i helped! -kayla
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