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Ok..i'm a freshman in high school and i never kissed a girl before, but i have the feeling that this is gonna be the year that i get my first kiss. I'm scared that i'll do it wrong or something and i don't know where to put my hands. Any advice?
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Relax it will be fine just put your hands on her waist and lean in! that simple! it will All come naturally youll be surprized!! =D
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Don't be worried. I didn't get my first kiss until 9th grade either, and it worked out perfectly. I don't know how, but I knew exactly what to do and everything. It's a moment you'll never forget.
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Just don't think about it Right befoRe, and as you'Re doing it. Just let it flow. I don't kiss people.. I Refuse, so I can't Really tell you what to do, howeveR, you could tRy spelling out youR name inside theiR mouth!! And if you feel like you need pRactice.. theRe's always the 'StaRbuRst' technique! You take a single 'StaRbuRst', completely sealed, and pop it into youR mouth. If you can manage to get the wRappeR entiRely off the 'StaRbuRst' you'Re supposedly a "good" kisseR. They say this makes you a "good" kisseR, because it *IS* haRd, and only the best kisseRs can do this. But, this is only a game. Although, it wouldn't huRt to tRy!! Goodluck!! SoRRie I couldn't be of moRe help!! I wish you the best!! =D
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Hi there. Listen, it's easy for me to say it but dont let the small stuff scare you. When I was your age I worried about the same things. But when I kissed my first boy, it was almost natural where to put my hands and how to do it. It sounds kind of funny but if you want you can practice on your arm. If you need anything else feel free to ask. I'm here! *C-Ya*
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Hey. Theres no rigth and wrong way of kissing, each person has their own techinque! I guess you can put ur hands in her hair (if your laying down) of if your standing up, her butt/hips.
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well im sure u cant screw a kiss up..dont worry, first kisses are aalways scarey! ifu really like her and she really likes u ..ucan be hugging eachother while kissing, u can also hold her hand or waist...wherever it feels right. when the time comes u'll know excatly wht to do!
**good luck**
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well 1st of all. dont think about it just do it. thats the problem that so many people have, they think about it too much and get so parranoyed that they either fuck up or chicken out. so when the time comes just do it! and just put your arms around the girl.
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aww..how cute..lol..well yur first kiss is supposed to be special..so dont make it sloppy..just make it a sweet romantic kiss..u can still use yur tongue just go slow (it comes naturally) and about yur hands..i always think its cute when a guy puts his hands on the girls cheek (lightly) or running his fingers through her hair..and ecspecially on the hips..that way u could bring the person closer while yur kissin then to make it more romantic
g0od luck with the kiss and yur freshman year! :]
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Don't over think the situation. When the time is right you'll be suprised to find that you instinctively know what to do. As far as where to put your hands--you can run your fingers through her hair or stroke the small of her back--that's always nice. Just follow your heart and everything else will fall in place.
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Well when a guy kisses me..i like it when he puts his hands on my face..not like squeezing..but like just lightly like holding it..kina like when u wanna kiss someone..and pictre them lookin down..and u tilt there face up to kiss em..and u juss restur and there..when the kiss starts..or like hold her hand while ur kissin her..she prolly doesnt know where to put her hand either!
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as a girl i can honestly say taht most girls arent really grading your kiss... honestly we are worried ourselves that we are going to eb abd kissers so we arent really worried about how u kiss. lol.. as for your hands u wil knwo when it happens but if you are really nervous try puttin themon her hips or shoudlers or even hold hands. you can also put one or both hands on her cheek. hope i helped n if u need anyhting else dont hesitate to ask!!
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Man,take it easy. Listen,you're gunna suck your first time. Don't sweat it. You get better. Put your hands on her hips or run them through her hair. You could run them along her stomach or along her body.
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Awwwww...that is adorable! I am sure there are girls that haven't kissed guys yet and they will be excited that you will kiss them first and they will kiss you first. Wait for the right girl. It comes naturally, believe me. You can put your hands on her cheek or your hands could run through her hair! Hope I helped!
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Thats really cute. But, really kissing does come naturally. The only thing is don't use your tongue on the first kiss and dont be all sloppy. Just gently kiss her and be soft about it. You can put your hands around her waist or you can put your hand on her cheek or something. Just make it a gentle, soft, cute kiss. That'll be really romantic and cute and she'll melt! lol. Hope this helps and if you need anymore help, just post a message in my inbox!
xoxo Kourtney
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hehe..ok don't rush, wait for the right girl. you wAnt your first kiss to be special and with someone you really like! don't be scared-kissing comes natural believe it or not..put your hands where ever you feel coomfortable, around her waste, on her face, or hold her hands. don't be nervous or think about doing anything wrong-that'll just make it worse! you'll do fine!
just make sure you have kissable lips--use some chap stick =) and have a mint!
xO`lexi
good luck with the kiss & your freshman yr! and if you need anything else, i'm here! just drop it in the inbox!
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Relax, and be soft and gentle. If you're relaxed, it should just come naturally. Hold her close and take your time. And don't forget to breathe!
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Aww! Sorry, it's cute. Lol. Well, when you find the right girl, just be gentle about the kiss. Put your hands on her waist, or wrap your arms around her gently - hers will probably go around your neck.
Or you can just hold her hands. I think that's how my current bf first kissed me...we were holding hands. Then we did the whole arm-wraparound thing. Lol.
You can't go wrong as long as your lips are relaxed and you don't use tongue on the first kiss! Kissing comes really naturally, though, so really - don't worry about it. ^_^
-Siren =)
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