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My best friends boyfriends changed her life and i miss her.
Hi. My name is Casey(girl) and i am 14 years old.My friend Hayley is in a 6 month relationship with her boyfriend John.Me and Hayley are best friends and ever since they have been going out i have never been able to see her and she doesnt care that she is with him more than all of her best friends.I always ask her what her plans are for the day and she says that she is hanging out with John and that repeats every day.He is such a bad boyfriend also.He tells her what to do and he is so mean to me and all of her friends.We all hate him because of the way he acts and talks to us.He calls us all cunts and is just plain old mean.How can i let her realize that she is spending way too much time with John than her best friends and that John is really not a good boyfriend even though he is ocassionally nice to her??
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Ouch,he actually calls you cunts? This guy is a total loser and a controlling loser at that. Ask your friend what the hell she sees in this guy and why she allows him to treat her like shit. I may be a bad guy but I never called my former girlfriends cunts or controlled them. And do somethin cool to John like put tuna in his shoes or in his bed. Leave a note that says "From the Cunts."
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aw im sry that sux doesnt it the exact same thing happened to me all she did was what her boyfriend told her and then she started turning into someone nobody wants to hang out with but i wish i could help more lol i just wanted to share my story with someone who has the same problem but we didnt turn out so well :( but i hope everything turns out ok with you guys
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well all u gotta do is tell her straight up how he aint treatin her right and how he act to u, hell prolly get mad and say yall is just jealous then u go to phase. Get a tape recorder and when u talk to him or argue just record wht he said and show it to her it should wokr then trust me. $M$
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well you can sit down and talk to her and tel her how you feel. if she doesnt understand than obviously she doesnt care about you guys as much as you thought. and if you dont want to do that try to plan something with her ahead of time. like in a week when she prolly doesnt have any plans. i hope i helped.......if you need anything else drop it in the inbox
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i know what you r going threw.. my best friend started going out with this guy jason... and i hooked them up and she never said thanx or nething but neways... there relationship got to be really serious so i barley saw her.. so thats when i had to tell her that i missed her bc she was always with jason.. thenm after 8 months they broke up ... she came back saying im sorry and what not .. im sure after they break up things will get better good luck!
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Well maybe you should just take her aside and tell her how you feel. Might want to have all your friends that think the same with you. If she doesn't take your advice then maybe you should just give it time. Plan some nights to have her over and just spend quality time with her yah know. I suck at this sorry.
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if your friend Hayley really likes this guy and doesnt wanna hear anyone say anything bad about him, she won't want you or anyone else saying anything about it. It's possible all she will do is argue with you or anyone else about it if brought up. Obviously, i dont know Hayley, but i have a friend whos been in a 9 month relationship and shes COMPLETELY obsessed with the guy, thinks she know whats love is and that shes in love with him, and she even says the guy is a dick sometimes. Anything i tried to tell her about it, she would get pissed off at me. I dont suggest anything that you know will lead to an argument, because its possible you will lose your friend over this guy John whos a dick to you and your friends. If Hayley is an understanding person, sit down and talk to her about it, and make sure youre not being mean to her about it or arguing with her at all.
-hope i could help :)
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