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go for the fling?
theres this guy who started talkin to me on AIM. He lives where I do and all that...definately not a stalker. I know his cousin lol.
Well anyway..hes 3 yrs older than me...hes never seen me but ive seen him..wasnt that attracted to him (not a good look tho..+ it was dark) .ive never been involved with anyone that old before...and i can tell all he wants is a fling. this is cool with me..cuz i want the same. Does anyone have any good ideas on where to meet , what to do when we meet, or should i not kiss him?
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You should go to the movies with ur friends and his friends and all chill together to break the ice and make it more comfortable....you can kiss him if you want but wait and see if he makes the first move
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Dear "Go for the fling?",
First off if you are planning to meet someone you have spoken with online, or only met once its always best to be safe, rather than sorry. NEVER meet someone you don't really know alone or in a non-public place. Just because someone sounds trustworthy, does not mean they are. Sweet words are easy to say, and easy to hide lies behind. Knowing his cousin does not mean you know how he will be. I'm not saying thats what he is doing, but better to be cautious.
So meet him with other friends. Go to a movie, or to dinner. Hang out in some public place so you can get to know him better, safely.
As for kissing him, or hooking up for a fling. My adive is to get to know him first. Once something is done, you cant change undo it. Its always better to think things thru first. Who knows, you may hang out with him and find out he is not at all the person you imagined him to be.
Mysti
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If you like him and you guys are just looking for a fling go with it. First hang out with him and his cousin like at the movies so you see what he does when your with him. THen if you like it then go to the movies just you too..and see what happens. Good Luck! <3
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Generally Interelationships are a very bad idea, for all you know he can be the biggest dick in the world, also knowing how old you are would help.
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