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15 - - Female.. keep getting in fights with my Best Guy Frie
- - ok, me and my best guy friend Mike keep getting in fights over shtuff. Like EVERY SINGLE time i talk to him, he has to bring up his girlfriend, who is like one of my friends and he KNOWS I HAVE THIS MAJOR CRUSH ON HIM!! and we always get in a fight over it, cuz how would you feel if you asked your best guy friend out *not the brightest thing to do i guess* and he said no he isn't "ReadY" and then went and asked out your friend..? My god!! and now i dunno what to do, cuz i'm sick of fighting with him......
what do i do?
Signed..
- Stupid Best girl friend
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i understand what you are saying, but you just have to accept the fact that atleast you still have a friendship and that should be more important to you. he probably thinks that since you are so close of a friend he should be able to talk to you about his girl and confide in you. Just tell him you don't feel comfortable talking about her. and if you're tired of fighting then stop fighting.
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Wow you sound Just like me. I had the same problem. I think your just frusturated becaues he keeps talking about her, and you have feelings for him. All you really want to do is talk to your best guy friend without her getting in it. Why would he bring her up right? Exactly, I think he's doing it to make you jealous, which you maybe are, but hey, who has to know? Don't yell or cuss at him! I made that mistake and lost my best guy friend.. Just ask him why do you keep bringing her up ya know? Or maybe talk to him in person or something, that might be easier. Tell him how you feel.. That could clear up alot, it made me and my old best guy friend..ALOT closer.. Hope I helped..
Best wishes!
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i was in the exact same situation..one of my best guy friends knew I really liked him..but hes obsessibe over my best friend and its all he talks about..its like he rubs it in my face..saying how hot she is..lol
I took a break from my best guy friend for a week..gradually he stopped talking about her so much
If you 2 are such great friends im sure he`ll consider your feelings
Just say to him "dont rub it in my face.."
or that its hurtful..etc.
hope i helped!
-melissa- :)
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If he says hes not ready, then he means hes not ready to go out with YOU, because he doesn't want you to be hurt if something happens.. and then possibly ruin your friendship. Just talk to him about it, make him understand how you feel about it. If he doesn't, then just wait it out.
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I hope i Helped!
~M.e.g.a.n.
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Girl..that has happened to me before and it ruined my friendship with him..we hardly talk now. If he starts talking about his G/F again..just change the subject. But dont make OBVIOUS like if he says "yeah me n my girlfriend went to the movies she soo awesome"..say yeah have u seen that movie that just came out its awesome and hopefully u guys will talk about something else. If he keeps talking about her constantly..i wouldnt give him the time of day for awhile.
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He did a very rude thing to you. Tell him what you feel. If he's your best friend he'll realize what he's doing and stop. If he keeps hurting and annoying you like that, I really don't think he deserve to be your best friend.
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When you two are talking just be like "You're my best friend and you're going out with one of my best friends and you knew I liked you and you said you weren't 'ready' and then you went out with a girl, what is up with that?" And then say "And I'm so sick of fighting with you over a girl, I mean you know I like you more than a friend, and I dont like it when you mention your girlfriend..." Just say something like that and how you feel. It won't be stupid either! Just be positive!! He should understand, he is your best friend. Just tell him how you feel and stuff. Hope this helps and good luck!! If you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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You are not stupid.
Have you TOLD him that the fact that he brings up his girlfriend bothers you like none other? He might be trying to treat you like just a friend (like, one who doesn't have a crush on him, that he could tell anything to), and ignore the fact that you like him.
I can totally see how it would bother you, though.
Talk it out calmly with him and ask him to stop telling you about his girlfriend. Point out that you're sick of fighting with him - he probably doesn't like fighting with you either.
I hope this works out!
-Siren =)
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You're right. That is kind of prickish of him to bring up his girlfriend when he knows you like him. Just, dont let it get to you. I'm assuming that you can do way better than this guy anyway. I mean, when he brings up his g/f .. that's totally a prick move. Just don't worry about it too much. You guys are just friends, and that's all he wants to be right now. As for the fighting, maybe you guys just need a break from eachother for a while. so then you guys don't fight, and you dont have to feel bad everytime he talks about his girlfriend. Then later on when you're both chilled out .. start talkin up again!
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