my boyfriend is always hangin out with kids who are 2 or more years younger than us. his friends are kind of immature...so they are always comin up to me sayin.....oooo have u kissed him...oo hes gonna dump you...adn all that sorta stuff its really annoying i know that they are joking but... i mean if they are his freinds why would they say that he was gonna dump me. its not like he spends way more time with me than them, bcuz he doesnt...its the other way around...
KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Friday July 23 2004, 6:22 pm: just explain what they are doing to u!! im sure that he will understand! but if you tell him that they r sayin that he as gonna break up with you..he will probably have his friends stop..but you cant split up someone and their friends just cuz ur uncomfortable..t if u wana spend more time with him just invite him over a lot and go on a lotta dates with him! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
MaGiCLyDeLiSh88 answered Friday July 23 2004, 6:20 pm: Hey. I have the same problem. My friends and I hang out with our boyfriends alot and it is alot of fun. But we are all different kinds of ages. My boyfriend is always saying thatmy friends get on his nerves because they are younger than he is. But wen I am with his friends they are such dorks! I mean they arent younger like in your problem but they sure act like it. I dont know why they act like that. They are always saying he likes other girls, he gunna dump you, or they act lyk little kids saying Oh I am gunna tell... you two kissed or you gto in his car! Sumtimes they make it look like if I was some kind of skank. When all I want to do is spend time with my boyfriend cuz I really like him. I think you should talk to him about everything and see how thigs go. Tell him how you feel. You might feel weird doing it but at least you can get things talked out. [ MaGiCLyDeLiSh88's advice column | Ask MaGiCLyDeLiSh88 A Question ]
brittney5472 answered Friday July 23 2004, 6:12 pm: okay hunnie i think that you could probably get alot better than some immature little boy.....you know what i had an immature b/f once and i just told him to grow up okay hgunn yah u can get alot better ......okay hunnie tell him to grow up and grow a dick [ brittney5472's advice column | Ask brittney5472 A Question ]
KraZyBaByx0x answered Friday July 23 2004, 6:12 pm: I think that they are just jelious that there cool older friend has a girlfriend caz they think that that makes them cool. And they think that there cool by saying that stuff..Believe me yer boyfriend is like my brother..he has all types of friends and they are annoying! What you should juss do is talk to your boyfriend! I mean say that these kids are annoying and there stupid! But if you dnt want to do that be like *Your nott cool..* And they will back off if they know that its not making you mad at all.
Hope it helps!
-x0x becca [ KraZyBaByx0x's advice column | Ask KraZyBaByx0x A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Friday July 23 2004, 6:10 pm: Guys are less mature than girls to begin with, and hanging out with guys even younger than you is probably not the best thing for your self esteem, lol.
I think you should just ignore them. I mean, you know he likes you and isn't going to dump you, and your opinion - at least in this situation - should really be all that matters. Don't let them get to you.
Does it bother you that he spends more time with them than with you? If it does, you've gotta talk him. Miscommunication is baaaaaaaaaaad for relationships.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
Roxybabii922 answered Friday July 23 2004, 6:09 pm: It's definitely because they are immature, they are mad that your boyfriend has someone and they are still stuck alone... I wouldnt worry about it too much, they'll hit puberty sooner or later.. [ Roxybabii922's advice column | Ask Roxybabii922 A Question ]
Shortlilcutie answered Friday July 23 2004, 6:08 pm: Sit him down and talk to him about his freinds and see if itz true what they are saying about yew and him breaking up!! i mean like talk to your boyfriends friends to and see who they are saying all that stuff and then go talk to yewr boyfriend!!
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