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am i a slut?


Question Posted Sunday June 6 2004, 12:27 pm

wow! this friday i lost my cell phone..and i went a lil crazi..i was at a teennight place (which is a place where u met ppl and dance and shyt like that) and i was askin every1 if they saw my phone and i asked this one realli hot guy and i was like heyyy do u have my phone..and he was like no and i was like are u sure???...and he was like u can check me and i was like ok so i lifted up his shirt..OMG He has a 6pac..<~ so0o hott lol..and he started touchin me on my boobs and my friends saw and there like WOW .... u got a bf! i sed ohh crap..then my other reali good friends sed i should make out with him..and i did..toung and everything...YIKES! and i was dancin with him..freakin everything! and i only met him once..and the funni thing was idun even no his name! help me out sum1!

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AskAmanda answered Thursday June 17 2004, 6:56 pm:
No you are not a slut. Maybe a little wild, but not slutty. If you really feel that bad about it tell your boyfriend about it and see what he says. It is only fair that you let him know what happened. You know that if he secretly did the same thing, you would want to know about. Loved ones don't keep secrets from other loved ones. The worst thing he can do is tell you that it is over. But if you are deeply and passionatly in love, things will work themselves out naturally. It's not like you slept with this random guy, you just made out with him. Flings are totally natural. Kissing is not sex. A person is only a slut when they repeatedly have sex with random guys. Tell your man, he deserves to know the truth. Hope it works out.

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Magenta answered Monday June 7 2004, 1:29 pm:
No it does not make you a slut. We all do crazy things from time to time, it's releasing. And seeing as you weren't hurting anyone, it sounds like harmless fun to me. Just don't do it do often or you'll make a name for yourself, ya hear?

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xokristabelle answered Sunday June 6 2004, 11:43 pm:
It's okay- calm down. Everyone does something like that every once in a while, heaven knows I have too. Just put it behind you. No good relationship starts like that. Everyone makes mistakes. Good luck!

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JamesBaybiGurl answered Sunday June 6 2004, 4:19 pm:
No, your not a slut. I guess your just a lil freek-a-leek...gurl...you is crazy, but if he was really hott and you were both single then no, your just quicker to do stuff then other people, basically it was a 1 night stand!

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cutelilbabers answered Sunday June 6 2004, 3:50 pm:
no u r not a slut. trust me ive been in a position like this before, im not sure if this will work but i told my boyfriend the truth. at first he really freaked out and gave me the silent treatment for a few days. but in the end it all worked out. we talked it out, and if he truly cares for u then hell forgive u.but on the other hand, this could be a sign that ur not completely happy with ur current boyfriend
luv kristi

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jetaime answered Sunday June 6 2004, 1:00 pm:
hahah way to go girl!!! some would say you are a slut because you have a boyfriend, but i dotn know it depends how old you are....let me know....but i say it was all in good fun!!!

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DruidX answered Sunday June 6 2004, 12:46 pm:
I wouldn't call you a slut, since the defintion of one is someone who sleeps around a great deal. However, I would go easy on getting it together with someone you just met, as it makes you come accros as very easy and you could get a reputaion. Always remember to use protection if you go any furthur then kissing ;)

Have fun, but don't be a total floosy :)

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