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I had the scariest day of my life the other day. I am an advicenator as well and the other day, i was walking to the park, and a guy sexually assulted me. The worst thing he did was finger me but it was still scary. I don't know what to do. I can't tell anyone because i already have enought problems as it is. I am only fourteen and haven't even had my first kiss yet. People are always spreading rumers that i am not a virgin and i was okay with it until now. Please Help me
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First, tell someone regardless if you have other problems or not. Preferably, go to the police. If not that, at least tell someone close to you who you can trust, then they can help you with contacting the authorities or at least give you some assurance.
Second, screw what other people say about you... Rumors are what happen when someone insecure and jealous of you tries to take the attention from you.
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You really need to tell someone. Like the police. They might be able to catch this guy, and then no one else will ever have to deal with what you're going through right now.
If you really can't call the police (which you REALLY should do) you could research some hotlines in your area that talk to teenagers with problems.
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Well you have to tell someone,
If you don't you'll become seclusive and cut yourself off of all people and it not good.
Trust me I know being manic depressive will do that to a person, but you have a chance to deal with It talk to someone. I don't it only makes the problem worse. Talk to other teens in your school if they have a group for students it helps.
You've talked about it here it will be hard but it can't be harder after you've said it once now try saying it in your head over and over.
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oh hun :- I know how scary that is. I've had it happen to me and trust me, you need to talk to someone about it. I know youre scared about your reputation and all...but you should at least talk to someone in your family. Also, the cops should know about this. You don't want this happening to anyone else so telling the cops would help catch this bastard. I hope everything works out hun...if you ever need to talk to someone about all of this, you can IM me (DevilsHalo03).
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awww sweety i no ur scared and i dont no what ur going though but u need to tell ur family or friend and then tell the police they will be very understanding and help u cope to no that u didnt deseve that. Its also a warning to all the other teenagers that theres a man out there that could do this to then. I no u must b going though hell but how would u feel if someone else experanced that. Dont suffer alone we are all here to help u or call child line plz keep safe and dont walk alone in parks keep near houses when walking and safty in numbers walk with ur friends look out for each other good luck lots of love
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You need to come forward and tell someone of authority.
Get it to the cops. Get a description of the person who did this to you.
If you don't, then what's to stop this same thing from happening to others?
No, what I'm suggesting isn't easy. Rumors spread by idiots should not influence such a decision.
You were assaulted, and that is a crime. You are a minor, which adds to the crime. No one should have to suffer through that.
Please, let an adult know who will not only better be able to help you, but also help get the creep who did this put away.
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I'm so sorry that such a terrible, frightening thing happened to you. Please do NOT listen to anyone who suggests that you were at all at fault, or didn't do enough to prevent it, which is just completely ridiculous.
I hope you will consider telling someone, because you just shouldn't have to deal with this all alone. I think first of all, you ought to tell your parents, but if you really, truly feel like you can't, at least talk to the guidance counselor at your school. I'm sure that he or she will keep it absolutely confidential from the other students at school. Or look in the phone book for a rape crisis hotline in your area, if you're super-concerned about anonymity.
Please also keep in mind, as others have pointed out, that not telling the police makes it more likely that this creep will attack someone else.
Write again if you need to, okay?
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errrm....why did u let him....? just run?
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i'm sorry i know what your going thru i was sexually assaulted my self!but you need to talk to someone tell the police or someone.Don't worry about what people think.I know how it feels to be in your situation
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My first response would be to tell someone because if you can identify the guy then you can help this from happening to other girls. But even if you don't just remember that it wasn't your fault and you have nothing to be ashamed of.Oh yea and don't listen to any of those people spreading rumors about you because as long as you know that they aren't true then thats all that matters. And hell even if they are true it's none of there damn buisness anyway but don't worry everything will work out ok.
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It's always best to tell, or at least get it out in the open because holding such information is never good even to your self when things are going wrong. Another thing you may want to consider is a blood test due to the fact you said he placed his finger inside of you, it is possible that he could have cuts on his fingers and may have a disease. So I would get a test done.
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You need to help yourself! You have been attacked, tell someone! First your parents, and then the police. Now matter how bad your other problems are, there is no excuse not to say anything! Don't let this preditor continue to be on the streets while you remain silent. You need to tell someone so he dosn't do it again! The worst thing he did was finger you?!! Are you kidding that is horrible!! You need to talk to someone about this for your own peace of mind, otherwise it will haunt for the rest of your life. Get some help now!!!!
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