PLEASE HELP I SO BADLY NEED IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Question Posted Saturday February 21 2004, 8:09 pm
PLEASE HELP ME I LOVE THIS GUY SO MUCH AND HE IS THE AIR I BREETH HE IS MY ONE SOMEONE BUT HE LEFT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW CAN I GET MY LOVE BACK? HE IS SO NICE AND I HAD MY FIRST KISS WITH HIM AND I LOVE HIM SO MUCH I ALMOST KILLED MY SELF WITH A KITCHAN KNIFE!!!!!! I WANT HIM BACK BUT HE MOVED AND I DONT THINK HE HAS A PHONE.and he does not go to my school any more SO HOW CAN I WIN HIS LOVE AGEN?
maybaby6644 answered Monday February 23 2004, 12:16 pm: BREATH DEEP love that is real comes to you and lasts. I dont know how old u r but im guessing your young cuz you said he was your first kiss. Keep busy, hang out w freinds that care about you. An if it still hurts and i know it will seek profesional help [ maybaby6644's advice column | Ask maybaby6644 A Question ]
PepeLePew answered Monday February 23 2004, 2:07 am: Think of it like this: you will have a million other first kisses with other guys. probably better than him.
he left you for some reason, talk to him. if it doesn't work out, move on. it won't be easy, it you both will be better off.
Siren_Cytherea answered Monday February 23 2004, 1:07 am: Whoa. Alright, honey, breathe.
I think you have a problem. You may be addicted to this guy, if you haven't thought about that already. Listen. Hurting yourself can not bring him back to you. I don't usually say things like this, but in this case, it's probably fate. Move on. Find another guy who won't leave you. Don't get too attached to guys. Guys are unreliable. It's like being addicted to cigarettes. You go crazy if you go cold turkey. This situation has forced you to be just cut off, and no one's good at handling that. Just breathe and move on. You'll find someone else, I can guarantee it. =)
-Siren [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
BewareOfCat2 answered Sunday February 22 2004, 1:51 am: OK. IT'S OK! CALM DOWN! Whatever you do DON'T HURT YOURSELF OR ANYBODY AROUND YOU! Talk to the guy before you do anything drastic like kill yourself. If you love him THAT much he probably loves back too. Just don't hurt yourself over a guy, it's not worth it. [ BewareOfCat2's advice column | Ask BewareOfCat2 A Question ]
Pandabalism answered Sunday February 22 2004, 1:24 am: Did you ask for advice before? Because, the boyfriend moving away and the capital letters are ringing a bell. Anywho, stop being crazy!! I'm sure your life will go back to normal eventually. And, I bet money you're only like 14; trust me when I say he's not your last love. You will find an even more suitable person for you. This guy was a learning experience, to help you when the right guy comes along. Things like this happen, it's just how things work. It really blows hard now, but it will get better. Don't forget about this guy, don't stop loving him. But, if he's moved away, it's time for you to move on. Be happy that you are who you are, and that you had the time you did with him. Go out with your friends, talk to them about it. Talk to your mom, or someone close. Talking about it helps, trust me I know. EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE!!!!!! [ Pandabalism's advice column | Ask Pandabalism A Question ]
aka_kittkatt answered Saturday February 21 2004, 10:03 pm: Ok, please don't kill yourself with a kitchen knife. What happens if someone tries to use for cutting steak and they don't know what you've done with it?
Of course you want the one you loved back, who wouldn't? Face the facts, he moved away. You can try a long distance relationship, but that won't work unless you're both dedicated to doing that.
It can be hard, but you're gonna live. Move on with your life. [ aka_kittkatt's advice column | Ask aka_kittkatt A Question ]
nicegirl90247 answered Saturday February 21 2004, 8:33 pm: First of all, I see that you are suffering, and having some serious pain. But NOBODY and I mean NOBODY is worth killing yourself over. You are young, and as much as it hurts right now you WILL GET OVER IT! You need to find somebody you can trust to talk to about how you are feeling. If you can't talk to your parents, TRY. They CARE and if not SOMEBODY CARES and you need to know that YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Go to a trusted family member, teacher, school counselor, minister, anybody you feel comfortable with and TALK OUT YOUR FEELINGS. You don't belong in such a serious relationship right now. You are young, and you have your whole life ahead of you. Take care of yourself, and have confidence in yourself for who YOU are not who you are as part of a couple. Relationships can be wonderful, but you can't depend totally on someone else for all your happiness. You have to love yourself before you can truly love anyone else. Surround yourself with your friends and family and let them help you get through this. You WILL get through it.But most of all BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. GOD BLESS YOU. I PRAY FOR YOUR BROKEN HEART TO HEAL AND FOR YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE SPECIAL, AND SOMEBODY OUT THERE WILL REALISE IT, PEOPLE ALREADY DO, AND YOU NEED TO REALISE IT. Take care,and write to me and let me know how you are doing. [ nicegirl90247's advice column | Ask nicegirl90247 A Question ]
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