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years ago i met a man here on line we were good friends both of us married we talked on line and on the phone almost everyday. OK one day while iming he says that we should be together and hes leaving his wife and he wanted to be with me he thought i was his soul mate and the romance??? grew into love letters through usps until one day he stopped all communication. I tried to find him but nothing and i gave up. at the beginning of last yr he contacted me said he was divorced and the reason that he stopped contact was cuz he was getting his life together wait.... theres more :) so we started the relationship again and i thought it had grown deeper so i arranged to meet w him in person and he thought this was a good idea he said no little feat cuz im still married now to make this shorter i will just say my last e mail from him was on May the day before my b day he wrote that he had started a site for his business would i check it out and tell him what i thought of his site and that he was going to a wedding out of town with his ex and he would write when he got back and never did i have heard nothing from him since then what do you think??? Im a stupid to be devistated by this????
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If you know that guy better than your husband, then go with him and leave your husband...but it'll only suck for the poor man.
but if you never seen this man, met his family, then you propably don't now his faults either.
stay with your husband, forget this other man. he is half a stranger that's just playing around with yourfeelings, and probaby won't care at the end.
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You can't trust this guy any further than you can spit. Be grateful that you're out of this situation before you really screwed up your life, and focus on the real world for a while.
If he ever gets in touch with you again, tell him you want nothing more to do with him -- or, better yet, don't respond at all.
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Let's see...since you say you're married, I'm going to make the assumption that you are an adult? If so, please use punctuation marks. It would have made this monstrosity of words, a lot easier to read. Now, on to the advice..Let me tell you a story..
..my next door neighbor's ex wife, was talking to a guy online and a few weeks ago she went to meet him, and she was murdered. No, I'm not making this up. Now, her 2 sons are left to live their live's without their mom. Online relationships can work for some people, but please be careful. And, if I were you, I'd just forget about him. Focus on your relationship with your husband, and figure out what's going on between you two. You must have loved him at one point, you did marry him!! Marriage is suppose to be something sacred and charished and beautiful. Don't throw it all away for some guy you don't even know. Most importantly, get out of the house and away from the computer. Don't get me wrong, computers are fun. But, there is so much more to life than talking to people you don't know over the internet. I hope that helped some!! Good luck!!
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