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I have never had a girlfriend
So here's the deal. I have never had a g/f. But I have a very nice personality and I am very very funny. Whats wrong. HELP
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Unless you're in your 30s or 40s and everyone you've asked out has said no for no reason, nothing's wrong with you.
A girlfriend isn't going to come to you just because you think you have good qualities. Also, what you think about yourself may not be what others think of you.
You can't just wait around for a girlfriend to materialize. Unless you have the body/face of a god (or Edward Cullen, thanks to Stephenie Meyer -.- ), girls will probably not be falling over themselves to get to you. If you want a girlfriend, you have to make an effort to impress someone and make sure you SHOW her your "very nice personality".
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Do you talk to any girls?
If not, then do it!!
Girls aren't always going to just come up to you, you need to make an effort too!
You sound like a good guy.
You said you are very very funny, thats good too, just make sure you don't take being funny way too far. Because that sometimes can be a huge turn off.
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You aren't alone. I may be psychotic, but generally, i am nice to people! I don't know what's wrong with people these days!
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Dear Mr. Funny,
You say that your a great guy like being funny and you have a nice personality, but you just aren't the chick magnet. Is there any girl that you like? If you find a girl that you really want to be a couple with, try this. Get to know her, get to know what she likes. And if its a talent and you've seen her talent, tell her how good she was. Girls always like complements. Or try to make her laugh since you are such a funny guy. Girls also like a guy with good sence of humor. But really try and get to know her and let her get to know you. Love relationships always start out as good friends. But don't try and get/date a girl just because you never had one. Tell me how everything goes!
Sincerely,
MiSSc
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Dear Help,
All i can say is, maybe the girls are just waiting for you to make the first move. You probably have a bunch of girls out there who like you!
Signed,
Britt
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Dear HELP,
Since there is no info about you, I can't exactly answer this question. Depending on your age, girls may not be interested in any guy. If you are old enough, think about some things through before you judge yourself as a bad person. Do you really want a girlfriend? Having a girlfriend means having a lot more responsibilities...calling her on the phone, sitting with her at lunch, everything. Think things through first before you decide on attracting a girlfriend. If you are sure that you are totally ready, maybe you should ask the girl, instead of waiting for her to ask you. Girls love to be complimented, so at the next dance, turn up your charm, don't be shy, and start dancing.
Good Luck!
Signed
DearBritney
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You probably are not letting people get close to you for soe reason. Has there been any deaths in the past? Try getting close to someone and see what happens.
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Having a good friend is great thing. Have you ever wondered if your just not letting people get close to you? Has there ever been a death of a friend that has hurt you?
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Well maybe your shy. IN order to get a girl, you should start talking to her, sitting with her at lunch, maybe try becoming friends! Or there may be absulutly nothing wrong. Maybe the true time just hasn't come yet!
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Well you see in order to get a girlfriend you need to take interest in girls. Now I am by no means calling you gay but understand you can have the best of personalities, be god's gift to guys, but if you never talk to, flirt, get to know, or peruse a girl than you won't get a girlfriend. The old "If I stare at her long enough she'll fall in love with me" will get you nothing more than a restraining order. You need to make your great personality known, and step out on a limb and talk and flirt, then if the girls aren’t asking you out, Ask them out... you could sit around and wonder why you don't have a girlfriend but unless you get up take action you wont ever get one...
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Maybe you need to flirt alittle more.you pick someone you like and let them get to know you.Be the real you and not the person she wishes you to be.
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You'll find someone in time. In the meantime, ask some girl out. The worst she could say is no.
cait52291
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Well, have you asked anyone out? That could help :-). Also, how old are you? If you are only 13 or something... well, there is still time, and you havn't had much time yet. Just act generally interested in girls, and dont JUST go for the "popular" ones. Also... you don't NEED a girlfriend, its just a perk in life!
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