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ok i have a serious question
ok i'm a teenager and least year i almost commited suicide over a guy i really liked and this year i've been thinking about my father (i have never met him andi really want to know more about him and accually meet him) and my mother will not tell me anything and earlyer today i was ready to write a couples of letters to my family and friends saying how much i love them and stuff like that nad i was ready to take a couples of different strong pills and kill myself but then i stopped and called up the guy i almost killed myself over and i asked him what he thinks other people and himself would feel if i killed myself or died and he said that he would be really upset cuz we went out a couple of times and we've been in each others lives for a long time and he said that he wouldn't know what to do with out me but i don't know i just can't handle all this so someone please tell me what i should do cuz i just feel like takin my life
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Everyone has had thoughts about suicide. But don't end your life, you don't know how many people would miss you. And guys arn't worth your tears. They are full of lies and bull crap.
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ok I know how you feel. I was majorly depreesed last year. I even cut myself a few times. Don't make that mistake. Find a hobby.I write and skateboard when I get in a depressed mood.Don't kill yourself people love you. And suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary feeling.
If you ever need to talk IM me (skaterbabe12104)
I hope I helped you
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hey ive been in this situation too....well not this bad but try playing comp games...it will bring u out of this world....
starcraft(old)...warcraft...anything
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[Link](Mouse over link to see full location) lists hotlines by state.
1.800.SUICIDE (784-2433) is easy to remember, and hopefully nationwide.
I know it sounds hypocritical of me to tell you that suicide is not the answer, since I've attempted several times, but it really isn't.
Something my friends have done for me: can you call your grandmother on the phone and tell her that life is so horrible that you have to kill yourself? If you can't do that - if you can't discuss why your death is the best option with people who love you - than your probably depressed and need to speak with a medical professional to get help.
Something I've been led to believe since my last suicide attempt is that each person effects others in ways they never guessed - and that many of those interactions are positive ones. Your no exception. You have a positive influence on the world.
Being a teenager is hard. You need someone to talk to. Someone who is there to squeeze your hand or smile at you or maybe even give you a hug if your comfortable with that. Older family members, clergy, and councilors are all good options. For emergencies, try using a suicide hotline.
Good luck.
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Okay, I know that you've had a lot of answers to this, and I know that a lot of them seem like good-natured people, but here's the deal from someone who's been through almost the exact same situation. My biological father wasn't around for many years. When he DID decide to come back into my life, he made so many promises to come and see me. The last time I saw him face-to-face was a few years ago. Last year I thought seriously about killing myself, and I called a friend. Some of my best friends had been unavailable, so I called one of my close friends that wasn't one that I hung out with as much. She helped me. I talked to people, and some of them told their guidance counselor that I was thinking about suicide. My guidance counselor called me in, talked to me, and called my mom. I don't recommend a school counselor or someone who can contact your parents if you don't want to have them know, because I wish that my mom had not known, even though it might have helped me deal with the stress. A counselor may be right for you, even though it wasn't right for me, and I only saw the woman a few times. But talk when you're ready, and make sure you don't follow through with suicide. And I pray that you don't take my route and start injuring yourself with the intent of relieving emotional stress without the intention to kill. It's not the way to go, trust me, I'm still going down that road, and I regret starting self-injury, because now it's like an addiction. You would do so well to write, paint, make music, do something creative, because I know that you have some sort of talent. Just make sure you talk to SOMEONE, even if it is in complete confidence. It does make you feel better, I promise. I know what I'm talking about!
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Okay...fisrt of all...do not take your life away. The reason for this advice column is to help people like you and I and everyone around us as best we can and even though I'm probably younger than you...I've been through many things in my life. I've even posted some questions myself. I've been through some things like this (not where I wanted to kill myself) but where I just wanted to be alone forever and I would just cry all the time. I've even been to a therapist before and I'm not ashamed to admit it.t to seek help. A great therapist. I know everybody around you is probably saying the same thing but trust me...there would be no point to making your family miserable. If you love this guy...no matter what happens to your relationship, nothing can cause him more pain then seeing you go...if you take your life...think about everyone you love...
Write in a journal....Stay in your room if you just want to be alone. Just don't take your life...
I'm going to be praying for you.Ask me a question if you want more advice...just let me know that your this girl so I know who you are.
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Please tell me you haven't done this. I just had a friend commit suicide over an argument. He left a wife and beautiful stepson who idolized him. We had no idea that he was even feeling bad.
It is definitely a "permanent solution to a temporary problem." Life is an ever changing river. You have to go with the flow sometimes so that you don't get flooded. There has got to be another way around this. I am seconding that you
should ask other members of your family about him. It may take some time to gain this information, so please don't give up so easy.
Do seek some counseling. I know its a drag, but it can help.
I will be thinking about you.
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Seek counseling, or just talk to this friend of yours, you need to talk to people let them know how you feel, you sound like you might have depression, so it's not your fault... you are not worthless! your life matters and people care about you... you need to talk to others so they can help you, whether trusted adults, family, friends, a councilor...even call up a help line... you just have to help yourself learn that you are valuable and you make a difference, and you would be missed terribly if you were dead, because it is true...
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Don't be a coward. Face your problems like everyone else. Everybody goes through tough spots - only the weak take the pathetioc opotion of ending their entire life because they can't face difficulties in their situation. The very fact that you're poting this here tells me you have second thoughts. I mean, what do you think we're going to say? "Go ahead, pull the trigger?" Bullshit. You don't want to do it. Grab ahold of that, and don;t let go. go, talk to someone, someone you can see and hear and touch. Go take a walk. Forget your problems, and think bout what you'd really be giving up.
Frankly, your problems dont sound all that bad. If you were getting beaten every day, or starved or tortured you'd have a case, but other people? Who gives a fuck what they think? Think you'll be able to meet your dad through John fucking Edward? If nothing else, live for your father. Live for life itself. Don't take the cowards way out.
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DO NOT GO THROUGH WITH THIS.
Do not make a permanent solution for a temporary problem. It's extremely rare you find the person you will marry in your adolescent years, so why give the ultimate sacrifice for some guy? You mentioned you'd like to meet your father. How are you ever going to do that if you kill yourself? No, it's not worth it.
Talk to a trusted adult, clergyperson, or guidance counselor ASAP. There are hotlines you can call for no charge if you want someone to talk to immediately. Don't give up your life for this guy. You have too much potential in your life to throw it all away now.
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