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What's wrong with me?


Posted Wednesday February 6 2008, 5:21 pm

Hey guys.

It's Valentine's Day again. And I'm pissed off. Why?

I used to be such a tomboy, lol. I would fight people, unfortunately. Looking back, I was such a disgrace, and I'm so glad I got anger management.

I'm still a bit of a tomboy, in the respect that I love seeing those gory action movies, but at the same time, I'm obsessed with fashion. Anyways, lol.

I just feel like, as usual, that guys never want me. I'm not girly enough, or soft spoken enough. I don't have a bad rep anymore, I dress pretty well. I have friends.

I just feel inadequate; that no one will ever be proud to call me their girlfriend. The guys at my school, they only date cookie-cutter girls.
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valentines present?


Posted Wednesday February 6 2008, 5:00 pm

for valentines day, i'm tinking about getting my bf a home-made card (with a picture of us in it) a picture of us in it and a duck-tape rose. Now last night i asked him if he has seen one, and he said yeah, their pretty cool. So do you guys think it's ok? Also, for the picture frame idea, should I make it, or buy a REALLY nice one? And last, in the picture frame, should I put in a picture of me and him, or a picture of just me. Cayse he accsidentlly washed the pic of me that he had...and the only pics he has of us together is from homecoming, and last year. Keep in mind we've been together for 1 year, and 3 months. Last year I baked him brownies.

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Keep coming back for more?


Posted Wednesday February 6 2008, 3:27 pm

Okay, so I'm just frustrated lately. One of my best friends/a big crush asked me out last Sunday, and we broke up Friday. (He said he was stressed lately because of his basment flooding, and said it was weird because we'd been such good friends beforehand). So we were fine, until four days later, I found out he ALREADY had a new girlfriend. I know that much sounds shady ,but I can't be sure because he's kinda got an issue with short term relationships and falling for girls quickly.
The thing is, this has happened twice. That time, and just a time where he was going to ask a girl out he hardly knew, and said that if that didn't work out, if it were okay with me, we could date. He eventually said he'd rather stay friends, however. ...

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Boyfriend’s online porn habits normal or obsession?


Posted Wednesday February 6 2008, 12:26 pm



Hi…Just to give you a little background on my situation, I am a 22 year old female that has been involved with my 32 year old boyfriend for almost 4 years now. I discovered his online porn collection after about our first 6 months of dating. Now four years later I am still struggling with the same issue. After our first year of dating he moved away for work and things became stressed because of the long distance. Year two he moved even further away creating more stress. So year three I decided to move with him. Long story short, about a month after I moved in he cheated with someone long distance—go figure! I moved out of his house and after about six months we got back together again.

Back to the porn i...

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Severe Momma's Boy Problems


Posted Wednesday February 6 2008, 11:48 am

Sorry it's so long...Okay, I'm not sure if I'm over-reacting but my boyfriend (age 20) is literally in love with his mommy. The birthday card he gave to her read this....
Mom,
May this Birthday be a special day for you, just as special as you are to me. First of all I want to thank you for raising me by yourself and doing a great job at it. I know it seems as I get older I need you less but that isn't true. I am still learning things from you every day.
Even though I am not into all of that religious stuff, I beleive you are an Angel. You were put on this earth to help and guide others. I want to thank you for all you have done for me, and guiding me on to the right path of life.
Mom, you have done so much fo...

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Posted Wednesday February 6 2008, 2:45 am

what can do to get my love back

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I need advice!"


Posted Wednesday February 6 2008, 2:39 am

what can i do when my girlfriend dump me just because i did`nt go to her home when she invite me on december holidays and i spent two weeks without calling her.and you know what i still love this girl what can i do to get her back

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What should I do????


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 10:44 pm

Alroght so, I like this guy named Nick but, he has a girlfriend but, it probably won't last much longer. So, I wanted to become his friend so, that I could maybe have a shot with him. Problem is I don't know how to start a conversation with him. He has a Myspace but, I don't have any classes with him this quarter and next year he's going to a new school. By the way, I know that he loves Volcom the skateboarding company.

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not pretty enough.


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 9:10 pm

14/f
i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.
weve been fighting the past three days and we usually never fight. but we came into a discussion that really bothered me.
apparently he said he could do better then me. so then i asked, how? and he said "listen i love your personality, and how you make me feel, i seriously love you, the only way i could do better then you is in looks" he kinda then saw me tearing and he told me he wasn't calling me ugly. and then i told him to just drop the conversation and we did but the rest of our day was good. i just really never thought i was ugly.. but i didn't think i was gorgeous.. just average you know? i mean other guys have asked me out in the past but yeah. so i guess im ugly.. what do i do now? :(

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farther than making out


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 8:56 pm

i would like it if guys would answer thiss :D

okay well me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months (we are both 14) and all we have done is makeout and he has put his hand up my shirt but not inside my bra. we both started talking about going a little farther and we are both okay with it. but the problem is some things would be kind of awkward since we are like best friends. so don't say like "talk to him while giving him a hand job" because that is incredibly awkward and we are both silly and can't really be sexual like that..it's just weird. come on, were 14! haha. but we don't want to go to fast...soo it like just feeling his dick from outside his clothes weird? like do guys like that? because i don't re...

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friends boyfrien in love with me!


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 8:45 pm

ok

so my best friend K is going out with D
and D really likes me
but i dont like him
K is in love with D... and D likes her but he is in love with me
i dont like him
and even if i did
i would NEVER hurt K like that

what should i do...
and please dont say tell K because she already knows

thank you in advance

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Scardy Cat


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 8:36 pm

OK well i have just caught the eye of this really cute guy who works at the supermarket near my house. I mean he is so cute I can't stope smiling when I see him. *blush*
But idk how to talk to him. I have a really low self esteem. I'm 5'0" and 169 pounds....... a bit much for a girl my hieght..... so i am always worried that a guy is only looking at my face and not me..... also i am just to shy to talk to him. so any ideas on how i can break the ice?

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Fall back in love


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 7:55 pm

Hi i'm 17 years old and me and my boyfriend (he is also 17) have been dating for 2 and a half years. I am so in love with him and I know that he loves me, but I think that since we have been dating for so long that he feels like he doesn't have to be romantic or say things like "I love you so much blah blah...you know the stuff that makes you feel happy really in love. Well how do I tell him that I miss it when he use to say stuff like that to me and how he used to treat me special. Now I feel like we are some married old couple I mean don't get me wrong everything is good I just miss that first time feelings of when he said sweet things to me. I'm sorry if this is really confusing ,but Idon't know what else to do.

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hurt and heart broken


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 5:26 pm

my old best friend thats a guy who i love told me he doesnt wanan be my best friend or makeout and do stuff with me naymore. i cant stop crying and i love him so much for so long. i really just need to get over him hes not even nice to me anymore! and please give me songs like tied together with a smile by taylor swift that show how pretty you really are in the inside. thank you so much!

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Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 12:15 pm

do guys prefer "down there" shaved or not shaved while fingering? i know ure going to say some guys like this and others like that, but which is more prefered?
thanks.

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feeling lonely


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 11:46 am

ok....i finally broke up with that guy that i was really unhappy with, but now i feel really extremely lonely. right now i don't know what to do about feeling lonely. i go out with friends and i am trying to enjoy the single life, but i'm not. i just want someone new to come around already but it seems like it won't ever happen.

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Valentines Day


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 10:54 am

Ehhh its coomning up soo soon and i have nothing to wear i want to get the cutest outfit every my ex boyfriend is taking me out for valentines and i have to look completly gorgeous i want some kind of stilleto high boots and a cute outfit i dont know where to go for my outfit i dont know what to even where i need to win him back someone please help! And i also have to do something amazing with my hair. Help me get him backk please =)

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My boyfriend doesn't trust me


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 10:33 am

My boyfriend and I go to different schools. I've never cheated on him, I don't flirt with other boys. But the other day he heard from a few people that go to school with me that I was all over his best friend Freddie.
Fred and I are really close, but he's going out with my really close friend. I would never do anything with him; I see him more as a cousin or brother or something. All that happened was at lunch we were insulting each other helluv, but really just kidding around. Then I made fun of his hair and he started fake pouting, so I ran behind him and hugged him (he was sitting down). Apparently everyone that was there thought it was really weird. His girlfriend got freaked out and thought that I was doing it to piss her off. <...

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NEED HELP


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 9:39 am

okay so there is this guy sam and he likes me well at least i think he does and he has asked me out before and i said no becuase i only look at him only as a friend.....so months passed by and i went out with his friend two of his friends tommy and nick and im still in love with tommy by the way lol....but now sam is texting me more and im talking to him becuase i'm always bored well he told me he has strong feelings about me and i said the same thing back becuase he's a really cool guy he's nice and gives good advice then theres this guy my friend wants me to talk to adrian and im interested in talking to him to but what if i want to get with adrian? but...dont want to hurt sam what do. and i really want a boyfriend also, i do this all suc...

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a note....i know i was being dumb....


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 9:22 am

i know i was being dumb. but i like this guy and i needed to get it off my chest. i knew i would stutter if i told him. so i left a note in his locker. that was last week. i now have NO clue if he even got it! (he doesn't use his locker very much) Should i just confront him about this, or wait?

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