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NEED HELP
okay so there is this guy sam and he likes me well at least i think he does and he has asked me out before and i said no becuase i only look at him only as a friend.....so months passed by and i went out with his friend two of his friends tommy and nick and im still in love with tommy by the way lol....but now sam is texting me more and im talking to him becuase i'm always bored well he told me he has strong feelings about me and i said the same thing back becuase he's a really cool guy he's nice and gives good advice then theres this guy my friend wants me to talk to adrian and im interested in talking to him to but what if i want to get with adrian? but...dont want to hurt sam what do. and i really want a boyfriend also, i do this all sucks but i need advice becuase i dont want to hurt anybody and seem like a bitch that is leading people on you know? so yeah if someone can help
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you just need to take a breather and think about which is best for you. im sure they all have different qualities that you like about them, but you have to be honest to them and yourself. you dont have time for everyone. so maybe make a pros/cons list and try and figure out which one you truly want the most. also ask some of your girlfriends what they think about each guy. and yea, you are going to hurt their feelings if you dont pick them but hey, they'll get over it eventually. better stop sooner rather than later right? cuz by waiting and leading them on further its just going to make it harder on everyone. try to cut back communication slightly with whoever you dont want to lead on and hope that they get the picture and if they continue to ask you about how you feel for them just say i dont know who i like at the moment or just tell them straight up though i know that can be hard. i once liked a guy who i had to tell i didnt like him even though i liked him a lot for some really hard reasons, and let me tell you it was not fun. but it will all end up okay. i promise!! :p hope that i helped you and everything goes great!!...
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In all honesty, you are leading them on. You are bouncing from one guy to the next to see which one you think is best for you. It's not right to be bouncing from one person to the next without considering how they would feel if you were to get caught. I would suggest you take a step back, figure out which one you truly do want and go from there. Stop leading others on, and pick one. Honestly, there's no use in even bringing another guy in the mix as is.
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