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What's wrong with me?
Hey guys.
It's Valentine's Day again. And I'm pissed off. Why?
I used to be such a tomboy, lol. I would fight people, unfortunately. Looking back, I was such a disgrace, and I'm so glad I got anger management.
I'm still a bit of a tomboy, in the respect that I love seeing those gory action movies, but at the same time, I'm obsessed with fashion. Anyways, lol.
I just feel like, as usual, that guys never want me. I'm not girly enough, or soft spoken enough. I don't have a bad rep anymore, I dress pretty well. I have friends.
I just feel inadequate; that no one will ever be proud to call me their girlfriend. The guys at my school, they only date cookie-cutter girls.
Once, a friend described me as being "You're just too much. You're always up to something?" Could that be the reason people aren't into me? Should I force myself to be like everyone else? Guys don't even want to talk to me. Some have liked me before, but they are embarrassed to tell anyone. I could see it in their eyes.
I know they say "Just wait". I can't wait any longer! I want to know what it's like!
I'm concerned about the upcoming Prom. I don't have a date, and I probably won't.
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Focus less on what you were, focus more on what you are and what you're trying to become. It's pretty obvious to spot an obsessive person, and progressiveness is an attractive quality in all people.
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well dont change yourself...im telling you if you do you will regret it later...Dont ever EVER change yourself for anybody...doesnt matter what the reason is...
And another thing, if a guy is too embarrased to admit that he likes you, then he probably aint worth your time any way. He is probably some immachure jerk. You dont ever deserve that.
And i go through the same thing honey. Except all the guys want to be my friend. Im just half and half. Half girly half tomboy, now see i love the gory scary movies, matter of fact i find them histarical. I dont know why but i do. But i also love clothes and make up. But i met this one guy over one summer and he gave me my first kiss and i was thinking man what does he see in me? But the reality is honey is that there will be a guy who wont be afraid. But you cant sit and wait for him. So i say that you make yourself viewable. Mind you, there is that possibility of getting hurt, but why dont you ask some of your guy friends if they would like to go with you, or some random hottie. ;)
-hayley
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