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i need confidence!


Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 2:17 pm

Okay I dont have low self esteem or anything but im not like cocky at all. This guy likes me and i always thought he was too good for me as stupid as that sounds. But he is extremely gorgeous and sweet to me and he seems to really like me. But I can't help but feel when I'm with him that im not good enough. It's all i think about. How can I get this out of my head?

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valentines day gift...?


Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 2:03 pm

14/f
this question is probably asked a lot..but what are some ideas for a valentines day gift for my boyfriend..something no more than 40-50 dollars. weve been going out for almost a month. thanks in advance!!!

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Valentines Gifts


Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 2:02 pm

My Husband and I set a limit for how much we would spend on Valentines day for each other and he went over almost double. We cannot really afford to spend the original limit set already and I am really upset with him. I don't want to ruin our valentines day, but I am not happy.
two questions, 1.how should I react when he gives me his gift. 2.Is it okay that I don't spend what he spent and keep to the limit?
I would have rather he spent it on something we need and I have been telling him that.

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Where are the cute guys?


Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 1:53 pm

So this is pretty short and random. A friend and I are getting really bored with our lack-of-love lives. The guys at our school sucks. So my question is, where can we go to just hit on/pick up cute guys? we're 17, and there arent any like clubs for teens or anything.
kay thanks.

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Forbidden Love


Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 9:48 am

ok, so a friend of mine has this 30 year old cousin and he keeps saying he loves her and she loves him to, problem is, she's in love with him. she's like 16 so they're like 15 yrs apart. He keeps patting her on the hip and butt and it doesn't really make her uncomfortable. Anyway, when she told me she's in love with him I was shocked. She knows it's wrong but doesn't know what 2 do. To make things more complicated, she lives in a home with a dad who is always blaming her for things and stuff and a mom who doesn't do anything about it. She would leave but she's got no where 2 go. She told her cousin and he said they would get a house 2gether in a while. She doesn't know what 2 do. She isn't sure if she should stay away from him which she can...

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am i a slut???


Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 8:01 am

hi i am 13/female and am having a real hard time moving on after last night. ok. so i like this guy.a couple nights ago we went to this indoor fun house with 2 of our friends. and we had a lot of fun. then during the last 15 mins we got dared to make out and we did (that was the first time ever for me). then last night he invited me over to his house and my friend was supposed to come and his friend was there. it ended up just being us three (me being the only girl). we watched a movie and ate for a while and then without a dare we started doingg EVERYTHING! we made out, we madeout on top of eachother, he went up my shirt and touched my boobs while making out, i gave him a lap dance (not intense though, just sat on top of him and moved arou...

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boyfriends' bday present


Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 3:06 am

For my birthday, my new bf of only about a week gave me "his heart" supposedly. He knew it was my bday, he was like, ok I know what I'm giving you. But doesn't that seem kind of cheesy? I mean seriously, does he really care about me?

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clueless about my own emotions


Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 12:24 am

16/f- i really hope you read this because my friends won't really understand.

alright so when i was 14 i dated a guy who was at the time 17. he was my first love and we were going out within about a week after we met. we went out for 4 months and i went to his jr. prom. i lost my spark of attraction to him and the large age difference was putting a strain on the relationship. he told me that there was another girl who liked him and he had always liked her and if he wasn't already going out with me then he would go out with her so he gave me the option (knowing about the other girl) if i wanted to keep the relationship going or end it. i decided to end it because i didn't really like him anymore and i'm not going to go out wit...

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He doesn't like me back...or does he???


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 11:37 pm

15/f
Well I've never had a problem like this before so that's why I really need the advice! :)
So anywayz, here's the thing...I like this guy, but I don't think he likes me back. Well he's 1 of those shy guys so it's really hard to tell. So I need advice on if he doesn't like me how can I get him to like me??? Now I know it's wrong to pretend to be someone else just to impress your crush! but it's not like I plan on being with him forever. I just wanna get to know him...like get a chance!...I know I may sound desperate, but well I am.:p...it's just so weird 'cause I've never had to deal with this before! :p
Any advice would be great! Thanks! :)

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shy


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 11:37 pm

hi, i was just wondering if anyone has any advice on how i can be less shy around guys. Because around some guys i am completely comfortable but when it's like a hot guy or something i get intimidated or whatever and get really shy! most ptobably because the guy is hot and you don't want to look like an idiot or whatever but does anyone have some tips to make me less shy aroudn them?
thanks!!!!

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makeout


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 11:27 pm

whats it like to makeout?
how do you do it really?
how do you get over being nervous?


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Chocolate box


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 10:40 pm

ok well how much does a chocolate box cost well ik there will be a variety of costs but i need to know about how much it will be so i can get one for my bf plz help :D



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Confusing Relationship


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 9:53 pm


This guy and i have been on and off for a little over a year, and i dont know what to do anymore.
its one of those situations where it doesnt matter how much he ignores me, i still like him. and he knows it.
he has a lot of girls who are friends and constantly takes them before me. i love him a lot though and i don't know what to do to make him realize that i can't take this anymore. he either needs to get his act together and treat me better or get out...
everytime we break up and get back together he always promises things will be different and he'll try harder and for the first month or two, they are. but then things fall apart. the cycle repeats itself. i like him so much that i let it.

please help, i can't cry over this anymore.

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Gently Rejected


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 9:38 pm

There's a guy from school who had a big crush on me. He knew absolutely nothing about me, and yet he still liked me. He used to keep talking to me and trying to get me to go on a date with him. After a while we started instant messaging on yahoo, and I got to know him a little better. At first I thought he was kind of cute, but I wasn't really that into him once I got to know him. I didn't want to lead him on, so finally I told him very nicely that I would just like to remain friends. He got mad at me! Now he's not talking to me at all. I told him we could still be friends, but he doesn't care. And it makes me wonder, was he even interested in me as a person or did he just want me to be his girlfriend? Anyway, now I feel bad about rejecting...

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so this dude...


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 9:02 pm

15/f
Last yr. i use to like a boy named josh. And last yr. i thought he liked me 2. We sort of knew eachother through my friend but i don't if he remembers me. So this yr. came..and i only saw him once and that was all the way in september. Just 3 days ago i randomly saw him. I want to talk to him and get to know him, but i don't want to look stupid. My question is how should i talk to him? or go up to him. ALL ADVICE IS APPRECIATED.

thanks in advance~


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guy trouble


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 8:59 pm

I really like this guy. Whenever we're alone together he flirts with me nonstop and I really like it. But when we're around other people he flirts with every girl he sees... more or less. .. and when its me and my best friend and him he pretty much ignores me and pays a ton of attention to her ... So I guess my question is is What do you do if the guy you like likes your best friend?

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crush


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 8:57 pm

So theres this boy whom I never talk to.. like NEVER ... I am so shy...people basically have to talk to me or I don't talk to them... the thing is... he's even shyer than I am... I really like him.. Like I've had a crush on him forever... but I don't know... I'd like to talk to him.. but I don't want to sound retarded.. and I have no idea what to talk about. TTYY for helpin!!

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Im the single friend, alone and surrounded by relationships.


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 8:13 pm

So first of all I'm a sixteen year old junior. I have my tight group of friends, 7 other girls, who I'm practically always with. I am pretty well known around my school, not for anything bad, I just am involved in a lot around my school. I have no problem meeting or talking to people, I'm not socially awkward. The problem is that recently my friends have ALL been in relationships. We all have jobs and sports, so schedules conflict. But when they dont, they all hang out with their boyfriends. Its not that they've never been in relationships before, but now they are all in relationships at the same time. I'm extremely alone. I've never been in a relationship, never been kissed. I have been asked to dances, which leads no where except the boy ...

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Tips


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 7:16 pm

Anyone have any good flirting tips? :]
Haha, I know I probobly sound really stupid for asking, but I don't really have any good ones, except I guess smiling? Haha. Help me out :]

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making the first move


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 6:17 pm

Well, I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of months now and i'm his first proper girlfriend, we're really close but we just kiss and hug and stuff, How can I make the first move to take our relationship further? :/

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