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Posted Tuesday September 2 2008, 12:35 am

what are things guys look for in a girl they want a real relationship with? what do they look for when they want someone to be with for a long time? and what keeps them interested and wanting you? thanks!! :)

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Posted Tuesday September 2 2008, 12:35 am

well there is this guy who is so perfect for me and is really one of those special guys. hes not like the other stupid guys and hes the type of guy your lucky to find and need to hang on to. he and i are so good for each other! but he lives in dallas while i like in kansas city! (while he was visitng my good friend we hung out a couple times and exchanged numbers) he and i really like each other but we obviously cant date because he live so far away from each other. we cant do long distance and there is no other options. what should i do?? how do i accept this? and how do i keep my heart from hurting. it hurts to like him but know nothing will ever come of it. he has actually talked about when we are in college but come on i know that wont ...

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He's changing.


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 11:17 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. At first, everything was great. We were really happy and we never fought or argued at all. For the past 3 months it seems like all we do is fight and argue. He's changed a lot. He's 19 with no job, no license, nothing. When we first starting dating, he had a job and seemed to be doing well. Now, it seems like he's letting his life go downhill. He has recently become friends with two people that did me and him both wrong in the past. Ever since he's starting hanging out with them again, he's been a real jerk. I tried talking to him about everything, but it always seems to go in one ear and out the other. It seems like he doesn't care about my feelings or me in general anymore. Well,...

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i miss him badly but i dont know why!!!!??????


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 10:36 pm

ok i probably already asked this question but i miss him badly and i try really hard to just get over him and its officially been a year since we broke up its just we went out for a year and a half on and off and he was always there for me in a time of need and i just miss talking to him.

i dont want him to like go out with me or anything i just miss us talking. he said he wanted to stay in touch and i was suprised but dont all guys say that to make it seem better and their the good guy but there not. i just dont know what to do.... CAN ANYONE HELP ME????!!!!!

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how do i tell him i still care for him


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 9:37 pm

so me and this guy met in eigth grade btw: im in 9th grade now, and you know how when you first meet someone you feel like you've known them for ever.... well that's what happened with me. and we became friends,dated,broke-up,and became friends again...and through this i knew he was moving and we both fell for eachother. I mean when we were friends we acted like a couple cause we cared for each other that much...and when him and i dated other people we were jealouse of eachother....and we would still say sweet things to eachother when we were dating other people... anyway he moved during the summer and school has started again.... and i miss him so much... i just want him here with me...i mean we still talk.. and i get mad and upset at him ...

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Long, lasting relationships?


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 9:10 pm

I've been with my boyfriend for over three years, and am happy to say we make each other very happy and love each other more than we can say. We won the "Cutest Couple" superlative, and have always been different from other couples, but more successful than them, as well. We do not have sex (but do other sexual things), and we aren't all over each other every second of every day. We are each others best friends. However, that phase of always being cute with each other has passed, as it always does with a long relationship. Sometimes I'm guilty of questioning if he "loves me as much as he used to, in the early stages of our relationship", even though at the end of the day, I realize it's a silly idea by the way he says he...

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PDA?!?!


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 8:54 pm

okay i know this may sound kinda stupid but,
what exactly does PDA mean?
thanks in advance :)

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whats wrong with me?


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 8:46 pm

everytime i start liking a guy i really really like them but once i figure out they like me back i stop liking them. why is that?
and right now this guy likes me (he's perfect everyone wants to date him) and i liked him back but then all of a sudden i stopped liking him cause he started to be really flirty.
whats wrong with me?!
15/f

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perfume


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 8:36 pm

when spraying perfume, how/where should you spray it on yourself so that when you hug a guy, he will smell it?

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Birthday


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 8:00 pm

OK, I just started going out with this guy and for his birthday coming up I got him this book that I know he wants. I don't know what else to get so I was just going to leave it at that. But then the other day he gave me roses and told me that he wanted me to know how much i meant to him, so now i'm trying to think of what i could add to the gift that would say the same thing to him as the flowers did to me, if that makes any sense. :) Anyway, if anyone has any suggestions, please let me know. thanx :)

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booty call?


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 5:42 pm

my ex and i have been seperated for awhile, and we took each others virginity, and i don't want to sleep w/ everyone, but we aren't going to get back together, and won't ever talk, like before dating again.
so how would i suggest he come over, for sex, only, like in a text or something?

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first impression


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 5:41 pm

15/f
Well, i went to a party on friday night with my friend and my friend introduced me to one of her friends named "joe." Well, i thought joe was a pretty nice guy and was really cute. My friend told him that and he said he thought i was pretty but he liked someone else. He said he wanted to talk to me and get to know me at school tomorrow and see how i am so he can see if he would like me or not. I get really nervous around guys, especially guys who know i like them. I really want to make a good first impression but i don't want to sound nervous or embarresed when he comes to talk to me. That's just my natural reaction. He also told my friend that he didn't like girls who wouldn't talk to him or who were really shy. I am ...

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hj


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 4:31 pm

when you're giving a hand job, don't you pretty much HAVE to use some kind of lube or lotion? i mean, won't it hurt them afterwards or even during it if there's nothing to help the girl move up and down smoothly..... and please don't say use saliva or your mouth!!!!

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oldies


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 2:48 pm

i would like a list of old songs (love, sweet)

for example i have; fast car, keep on loving you, waiting for a girl like you...

anymore? thank you. astist and titles!

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Long distance


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 2:40 pm

Ok, so my boyfriend lives in Venezuela, and I live in Florida. I used to live in venezuela, when I met him, and we were like madly in love. Then i moved here, and we are still trying to keep up the relationship. But the thing is, he is VERY committed to getting married, having a family, and everything, and I am not. I mean, I dont know how it's gonna work out, if he ends up being the one, well thats fine, but I am still young (16) and if it doesn't work out, i understand that there are other guys. But I have told Carlos that, you know, I can't promise anything, I dont know whats gonna happen between us until we can be together again, and he says: I know, I know, but then just goes right back to saying "youre the one im going to marry a...

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I wanna date


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 2:36 pm

so there is this one guy i like he is 14 as am i and i really like him i think he likes me but i dont know. I wanna ask him to homecoming and i wanna go out with him and stuff. My problem is that i am really shy and dont like talking to guys and really hardly trust anyone espically guys ive never had a bf i know lame right. im afaid if we do become really close and stuff he'll laugh and not like me cauze ive never really kissed and one before. I want to impress this guy and want to know what to do to impress him. we are walking together in his sisters wedding so that may be a good time to talk to him but him and his family will be over next weekend also i dont know what to do. pleaze help the hopless

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close friends but ppl think more.


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 12:41 pm

over the summer i met this guy and i like him for awhile but he didnt feel that way about me so i slowly moved on. but we flirted like crazy when he had a girlfriend and when he didnt have one. we hungout a lot and he talked to me more then his girlfriend so we became close friends and when i say stories about the summer his name is always in there because i was always with him. his ex girlfriend when they were going out called me and said i think u and him have something going on together and i cant be your friend if thats what is happening. then my bestfriend says that he is jealous of me when i talk to other guys and everyone says were in love but i have some feeling s for him but not a lot. and he gives the act of being jealous when i h...

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What to do? Break up? Wait? ????


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 11:50 am

Hi, my realationship is somehow difficult and complicated. It's hard to explain.
I met this girl 4 months ago. We officially went to bf and gf after 2 weeks or so. We had a great time, till I had to go back to europe. Before I left we decided that she moves to me to Europe to stay with me and learn german,...,...

The first couple weeks went great. She told me that she loves me all the time and that I'm so different and I'm the one. After like 6 weeks everything changed, she did not call that often anymore, she did not say I love you anymore. I know a long distance relationship is not easy, so I decided to fly over. She was very very happy to see me, she was so nice to me in front of all her friends. But the 2nd night s...

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mother-in-law troubles


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 10:31 am

I am from Nigeria, and am 25years old.i have been seeing this guy for 4 years now but the problem is she does not want us to get married simply because she does not like my parents religion.but i attend the same church wit my boyfriend so i dont see a problem with that.i am really confused because my boyfriend is really close to his mum.what do i do now?

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Should I kiss on the first date?


Posted Monday September 1 2008, 4:51 am

I am going on my first date with a wonderful guy soon and I want to know what to expect. I want to make a good impression on our first date together, which may involve kissing. I'm not really sure about some things regarding the appropriate time to kiss on a date.

Should I kiss a guy at the end of our first date if it went well or should I wait a few dates? What is appropriate? I don't want to come off as pushy or easy, and I want to make sure chemistry is there on his side too without asking him. How will I know it's the right time to kiss on a date?

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