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first impression
15/f
Well, i went to a party on friday night with my friend and my friend introduced me to one of her friends named "joe." Well, i thought joe was a pretty nice guy and was really cute. My friend told him that and he said he thought i was pretty but he liked someone else. He said he wanted to talk to me and get to know me at school tomorrow and see how i am so he can see if he would like me or not. I get really nervous around guys, especially guys who know i like them. I really want to make a good first impression but i don't want to sound nervous or embarresed when he comes to talk to me. That's just my natural reaction. He also told my friend that he didn't like girls who wouldn't talk to him or who were really shy. I am kinda shy around new people and i don't know how i am going to act not shy around him because i know i will. What do i do? How do i make a good first impression? Is there any way i can make myself less nervous? Thanks for your tips and advice!
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It's all about confidence. If you don't got it, fake it. Right now, he's empowered because HE'S evaluating you, as if you were some sort of object for sale at an auction. You gotta have a sort of I-really-dont-give-a-crap-whether-you-like-me-or-not attitude [lol]. Do you get what I'm saying? I mean, don't ADMIT you're better than him, just make it clear to him that you're fine with being friends, you have no time for games, and most importantly, that you can move on faster than he can. For some reason, us humans are attracted to those who ignore us the most. And really, he isn't better than you, so there's no need for you to act nervous or in any way submissive. Even though things hardly ever turn out the way we hope, you can try practicing the conversation you two might have. That way, you'll have the upper hand. Remind yourself that he's not the first, and certainly won't be the last cute guy you meet. And again, If it doesn't work out, he's STILL not better than you. Good luck <3's.
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Alright...well even though your shy...if you really want a shot at this guy your going to have to be ready to answer questions...dont choke....when you choke...you cant breath so when you see him breath slowly....also....try to get a list of questions that bring up a good conversation...this is because once you get into a good conversation with him...youll feel more relaxed...
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