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Should I kiss on the first date?
I am going on my first date with a wonderful guy soon and I want to know what to expect. I want to make a good impression on our first date together, which may involve kissing. I'm not really sure about some things regarding the appropriate time to kiss on a date.
Should I kiss a guy at the end of our first date if it went well or should I wait a few dates? What is appropriate? I don't want to come off as pushy or easy, and I want to make sure chemistry is there on his side too without asking him. How will I know it's the right time to kiss on a date?
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You will definetley know when its the right time. Just wait and see what happens. Personal experience, wait till yall are laughing, having an awesome time, then just lean over for a kiss on the cheek. Never kiss on the lips on the first date unless its at the end. It *could* go well, but then theres a chance it could ruin things. But at the end of the first date, if you had a good time, go for it. I guarentee you he won't complain :]
Good Luck!
-Taylor-
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Close your eyes, and smash your lips into his nose and the part of the cheek under his eye.
Then dissolve into fits of giggles while he looks horrorstruck and slowly turns away confused and sad.
Then grab him, turn him around, and kiss him while trying to stifle the giggles.
Works every time.
Or, you could wait until he's had every opportunity. When he drops you off at home, get out of the car. If he doesnt open his door, bend back down and ask "will you walk me to the door?"
He walks you to the door. Fiddle with your keys and generally take forever giving him every opportunity to work up the nerve.
If he still doesnt manage it, and says good night and starts to walk away, say "Youre forgetting something"
If he still doesnt take the hint just kiss the poor nervous bastard.
Kissing a guy on the first date =/= easy.
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You'll probably find that the kiss will come naturally if and when the time is right. It might turn out that he doesn't want to kiss on the first date, and that's fine. It's up to you whether or not you decide to - but obviously it's not advisable to go much further than just kissing.
You will probably be able to tell if the chemistry is there by the end of the date and I think this is probably the most appropriate time to kiss if you plan to. When you say goodbye, thank him for the date, lean in and give him a short and sweet kiss. If for whatever reason this doesn't seem appropriate, maybe opt for the cheek or a quick peck on the lips.
Remember that you don't have to do anything if you don't want to - if he turns out to be less wonderful that you thought, don't be afraid to say no if he tries to kiss you. Also bear in mind that he's probably just as nervous as you and is likely to be going through the same worries.
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