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ugh!
Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 12:53 pm
so last saturday, i was talking to this guy i REALLY like on aim.
he was always asking me who i liked.
and he was like, this is gonna sound weird. but i'm just wondering....are you really prude?
and i was like probably, like i haven't done anything.
but i'm just inexperienced, not really like prude. but i can go back and say that, because that was over a week ago.
anyways, i found out that on sunday, him and one of my friends (they dated twice, and she doesn't know i like him) went to the movies.
he gave her his sweatshirt, and then they started making out a bit, and he pushed her head down to his dick. so he got like a blowjob out of her.
i don't know if he still likes her, or if h...
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My Girlfriends best kept secret
Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 11:21 am
Dear Columnist,
I have a girlfriend, we've been together for a few weeks now, but she has already made it evident that she has secrets about her life that she is not comfortable with telling me. I was not too worried about them until her friends mother, (who she lives with) let me in on a big secret, but made me swear not to tell my girlfriend that I know. She told me last night because me and my girlfriend were fighting over sexual issues. The problem was, that I was kissing her, and touching her, and we were about to have sex, but all she wanted to do was kiss, and she was very reluctant to have sex, or touch me, but all she gave was a lot of far fetched excuses. This irritated me because this has been going on for the past...
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best friend who turned into boyfriend
Posted Friday October 24 2008, 11:10 pm
its a very long story but basically over the years me and my best friend have always wanted to be with each other. things got in the way. he was in a relationship for a while but now that recently ended. we're taking it slow for now but we both know that eventually within the next few months we're going to be dating. we talk on the phone multiple times a day and we love each other without a doubt and we're not afraid to say it. so i have two questions:
1)because we've been best friends for a while and do love each other how do you know when its crossed the point of loving to being in love with each other?
2)im a virgin, hes not but that doesnt really concern me. we're very open about sex and i would trust him w...
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Kissing
Posted Friday October 24 2008, 7:14 pm
Hey so idk if this guy i'm with is a good kisser..and i havn't hooked up with a ton of guys so i don't really know what a good kisser is
so here are a few questions..
are your lips supposed to be like stacked on top of eachother like his bottom lip..my bottom lip..his top lip..my top lip?
are you supposed to like take turns going into eachother's mouths or do your tongues just meet in the middle..?
what do you do with your tongues?
When your head is turned sideways how do you still like lock lips?
If you want to just tell me every tiny detail about kissing that would be cool lol
He kinda does the same thing with his tongue so how do i get him to change?
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Problem with another girl and a guy (girl and guy NOT dating)
Posted Friday October 24 2008, 6:03 pm
***I'm 13 Female***
Okay, so in my math class by my desk is this guy named Nick and this girl named Karlee. Karlee thinks I should date Nick and I don't want to. I don't want to date him and she won't leave me alone! I'm getting really mad at her, and she says everything out loud in a loud voice, so my friends know all this, and I'm going to go crazy sometime soon. And the teacher hears her and just smiles... I'm really mad and want to do something about it but I'm lost.
Any advice?
Thanks!
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coming over
Posted Friday October 24 2008, 5:33 pm
15/f
My boyfriend wants me to come over to his house and i have never been to a guys house before that i have dated and i am REALLY nervous. At school, i don't get to see him that much so i'm not that nervous. What do i do? How do i not be nervous? Please help!
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boyfriend problems
Posted Friday October 24 2008, 2:24 pm
15/f
Ok, lately whenever i talk to tyler (my bf) on the phone he says things that make me so jealous! Last night, he told me that his ex girlfriend keeps calling him. He also told me that my bestfriend called and asked him if he was going to this one party that someone had last night. Normally, i wouldn't think anything about my friend calling him like this. The reason i am being like this is because she has been known to flirt with some of my other crushes before. All the other times she has done this to my other crushes i have cofronted her about it and she just says "We are just friends, he's just like a big brother to me!" Blah blah blah. Then, the other day i was walking to my second period class and they were walking ...
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Need Help Interesting places to get married ?
Posted Friday October 24 2008, 1:23 pm
Well I have been married once, it was nothing special really got married in shorts at a court house LOL
However I am getting married again, my dream is to get married near somekind of cool waterfall somewhere out in the open. What I need some help with is I have never really traveled anywhere. I have not seen or been to alot of states. So I really need some cool ideas or neat places that have waterfalls, that might be ideal for a wedding. Looking for something really beautiful, so I can have some unforgetable pictures.
So any help or suggestions would be great, I also plan to buy like a case of bug spray LOL for me, my soon to be hubby and the guests.
thanks for your help :P
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can`t stop thinking about him
Posted Friday October 24 2008, 11:50 am
okay theres a guy that i used to like.....we dated for over 2 months and i was happy to end the relationship b/c we was constantly in argument....this was over 4 months ago....and i am still thinking about him even tho i dont want him back....im confused???why am i thinking about him every day????
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sex talk
Posted Friday October 24 2008, 9:29 am
Ok, me and my boyfriend are both 15, almost 16. I'm a virgin, and he's not. I really want to have sex with him, but dont know how to bring it up with him without seeming like a slut. Any ideas?
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i dont know what to do with my boyfriend
Posted Friday October 24 2008, 7:59 am
okay, i dont know what to do anymore
my boyfriend lately hasnt been himself.
theres days where he'll be all over me and be like "baby i love you and all this other stuff.."
but lately he's been ignoring me, like it seems like he's more concerned to hang out with his friend or whatever..and well 2weeks ago me and him went out and i meet his WHOLE family. and he was all over me then..its like when we go out. just me and him that's when he wants to be all lovely dovey...and it annoys me... like I'm not the type to be around or glued to my boyfriend 24/7 but dont ignore me wither and there's this one situation where me and him got into an arguement a LONG time ago..and now he always says to people that I'm jealous...
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me and my boyfriend got into a fight
Posted Friday October 24 2008, 5:08 am
We've been dating for about a month now, and I really really like him. I may even love him. We were friends before hand for about a year, so we're already pretty close. We've talked about having sex, and we were planning on doing it on his birthday. I really wanted him, and he wanted me, but, something didn't feel right, so I told him we should wait a little longer. He kept on going, so finally, I just walked out and went home. It's been 3 days since then, and he's still pretty mad. Anyon know why? Or what I should do?
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Advice Please...
Posted Friday October 24 2008, 1:10 am
I recently lost my virginity to a guy i barely know... He was really feeling me & i really was feeling him, I was comfortable with having sex with him, But now he wont answer his phone tha last time we spoke he wanted to hang out but i had school and i havent spoke to him since. What could that mean? Does it mean he doesnt want to be bothered with me anymore? Gie me some advice....
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Posted Thursday October 23 2008, 10:25 pm
Hey, I met a guy online and I talked to him for about a week and I thought everything was going great! but I was always the one to say "Hi" first. So I decided to wait for him to start the conversation. Well, it's been almost 3 days and nothing yet...
Should I take this as "not interested"
P.S. We exchanged phone numbers last conversation and he was the first to give me his, so I thought he was interested.... idk
What do you think I should do?
18/F
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For the men.
Posted Thursday October 23 2008, 10:18 pm
I know, i know..another question about what type of lady a real man prefers. More specificly, would you ever go out with a girl that has a bit more chub chub than others? what are your thoughts and/or opinions on that?
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i need advice
Posted Thursday October 23 2008, 9:35 pm
what does it mean when you have dreams about the boy you like? and is it normal or is it weird to have dreams about them
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is something wrong with me
Posted Thursday October 23 2008, 8:11 pm
okay so im 17 my boyfriend is 21 weve been together for going on 9 months now but the whole time during our relationship ive meet his parents once is there something wrong with that???i dont think it would bother me as much if i didnt know how him and his ex were like they broke up when he went off to college 2!! years ago...and he has had other relationships since then and before me but i found myself the other day on his moms myspace and seen comment form his ex then i got on his and ive never took the time to read his stuff because its the past it shouldnt bother me but there was so many over n over n over again and its like im tryin to compete with her and ive never even meet her n theyve had nothing to do with each other in over 2 year...
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im not sure
Posted Thursday October 23 2008, 8:03 pm
okay so as we all know christmas is right around the coner and me and my boyfriend have been together going on 9 months i know is not that long but considering im only 17 i think its a while well this is our first christmas together and im so unsure on what to get him i had this same confussion on his 21st birthday and he wouldnt tell what he wanted so he ended up getting nothing..what shold i get him for christmas?
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how long until getting sexual...
Posted Thursday October 23 2008, 7:24 pm
ive been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 months and im soo happy with him. we havent said "i love you" yet because we both want to really mean it when we do. and we're moving kind of slow, which i like and im not complaining. i was just wondering how long does it usually take before couples get sexual? (not actually having sex just like feeling up and all of that) we're moving the way we want but i just want to get an idea of what other couples are like so any stories or experiences would be appreciated =)
16/f
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so sad :(
Posted Thursday October 23 2008, 6:53 pm
14/f
ok so i just started high school and theres this one guy i like A LOT like you dont even know dude!
but i only see him in the halls and i have zero classes with him. i want a boyfriends really really bad. the only problem is im fat like majorly but not like a big bubble...and i wear glasses the only thing i like about my self is my eyes. i have NEVER had a boyfriend and i've NEVER kissed a guy. but i really want a boyfriend. so so bad.
what do i do?
i know this may sound stupid and u may say focus on school blah blah blah but i can multitask.
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