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Posted Sunday December 14 2008, 10:07 pm
I have this really good guy friend that I kind of like and he kind of likes me. We've dated before, when we went to the same school, but it was a little awkward. So, we've pretty much been on and off on the whole "liking each other" thing. Now he goes to a different school and we live like a town away, but it's not very far. He recently got texting and we've been texting for about a month or two. Well, we randomly stopped texting about two weeks ago. I'm not sure why, things just got really busy at school so I was unable to text him for a couple weeks. Now, this morning I wake up to a text to him that said "I love you". (I forgot to add, he doesn't take that phrase lightly). So I texted him back "what?" just in...
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Posted Sunday December 14 2008, 10:03 pm
OK, i don't like do stuff with guys. i mean i don't try to be prude but i just get scared or nervous sometimes to stuff like that. i don't wanna go all the way but i don't people to be calling me prude. i also don't wanna just do stuff with any guy but then again people say i'm prude. i haven't like found a guy that i would trust or wouldn't mind doing stuff with. but what should i do?
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How do I act?
Posted Sunday December 14 2008, 8:50 pm
Hi, I recently just got my first boyfriend, and I really like him a lot. He went out with my best friend, who is perfectly OK with it, trust me. But, I'm not sure how to act. I am still being myself, obviousely. However, I feel like I'm acting more like a friend than a girlfriend. I just want to know how to act more like a girlfriend.
Thanks!
ps. we hav kissed..but have not made out.
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competing with boyfriend
Posted Sunday December 14 2008, 7:23 pm
i feel like i'm always competing with my boyfriend. we both really love each other but like he always tells me how im "good at everything" and then he tries to do something im okay at but not too great at and be better than me...is this normal? i honestly don't think im good at everything...can anyone give me advice?
16/f and hes 16/m
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Hot and cold
Posted Sunday December 14 2008, 2:59 pm
I like a guy who's a grade above me and have for atleast 6 months now. We're friends, but not like best buds. Lately, it kind of seems like he's been flirty, but I can never tell, because he's so hot and cold with me. Some days it will seem like he likes me, but then other days he practically ignores me or talks to me, but not in a flirty way. He's not a player or anything, trust me, so I don't know what's going on. How can I tell what's going on in his mind and if he likes me?
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harder
Posted Sunday December 14 2008, 2:52 pm
why is is so hard to get over your first love and why is that even after they hurt you so much its still harder? what have you (guys and girls) done to get over them and can you ever even get over them completely?
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only in the hallway :/
Posted Sunday December 14 2008, 1:06 pm
I'm a sophomore and about two weeks ago my best friend and I were walking in the hallway at school and she tells me that this senior was staring at me two days in a row and I got really excited because I had seen him looking at me once or twice before but I didnt really think anything of it. So then she would look at him in the hallways to see if he would look and he did! I was really happy and was determined to make eye contact but now...he looks away or down! Or he scratches his head or eyes, something awkward like that! I think he knows that I know he was staring at me and maybe he feels embarrased..? I dont know! I really want to make something happen but I dont know how to come across it without seeming creepy/stalkerish. Plus I dont h...
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missing being single?
Posted Sunday December 14 2008, 7:10 am
Basically, I'm in my first relationship :)
Anyway for the past few months, at the parties I go to...this is going to sound soooo stuck up, but I was the "it" girl. The girl who wasn't a whore, but did kiss a lot of guys. The girl that all the guys wanted to be with. I'm SO SORRY for sounding so stuck up, and I'm not conceited I promise. These guys are desperate :P
But anyway, I got asked out a lot and said no to most guys because I liked being single. But I said yes to one guy, because I really liked him. And we've been going out for a while. I think I might even love him.
Anyway, I would NEVER dump him to be single again. I'm not that horrible, and doing that would lead myself to stayi...
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A fun one
Posted Saturday December 13 2008, 11:09 pm
Alright, so this isn't really an advice question, but I guess it is. So all you have to do is tell us about the guy you are crushing on, some things about him, and why you like him.
The boy I like is super cute, brown hair with little waves and the warmest brown eyes you've ever seen. When he smiles he becomes 40 times more adorable, if that is possible. He's pretty shy, but it works for him, and he's very athletic, but I have never heard him brag about it. When we talk, he likes to ask questions and he is one of those people who can make you laugh even when they aren't trying. He's a study buddy and a good one too. He is incredibly stubborn, but I seem to be able to talk him into almost anything, even though he is yet to convince me...
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Why am I feeling so bummed? I had liked the guy for years...
Posted Saturday December 13 2008, 10:29 pm
ok, so there was this guy that I liked for a long time. A little while ago I decided I didn't like him anymore (even though part of me still went back to liking him whenever eye-connection was made or we talked) sometimes I still think about him, and I think I noticed that no, i'm not completely over him. I know that we've had a past for liking each other quite a bit, and then one of my friends started liking him in october.
Now, yes, they are going out. I haven't told anyone that it bugs me, just now they are bf & gf and get to do all that girlfriend boyfriend stuff I would think about.
Also I kinda like another guy now, but i'm kinda confused why I'm feeling so down.
Because I really do still like that gu...
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wow. a boy.
Posted Saturday December 13 2008, 4:40 pm
i've been into this boy for almost 3 months and we had a thing for one of those months and then he ditched me for a freshmen after he met my parents and everything.
he ignored me for that time period and when i asked why he said he didnt want it to be awkward and thought i would be mad.
i said it was alright and i just wanted to be friends (even though i wanted more)
when they stopped going out he always says hi to me. and when im with my friends no matter where i am standing he always says hi to me first.
when i was walking in the hallway by myself after school the hallways were crowded and then i saw him coming the other way with his friends(it was like a movie like we were the only people)and he was looking a...
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pill and sex
Posted Saturday December 13 2008, 9:25 am
15/f about to go on pill. I am not sexually active but want to go on pill for benefits such as no cramps, since mine can get bad, and shorter n lighter periods. But I want to know if you think the pill will kind of encourage me to have sex, like make it seem like its not a big deal because im protected. My friends say im very sexual, because I say a lot of sexual things, like who i would and wud not have sex with, how and why, sex jokes, and kinky things i guess. I'll admit i kind of want to but at the same time i dont want to take the pill if Im going to get Motivated to have sex.
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longstorry but i am sooo confused
Posted Saturday December 13 2008, 12:40 am
gggrrrr!!!! i dont know if i like him because i thought i did but now im thinking diffrent and urg!!
begining we started talking over myspace and he goes to my school hes a grade lower than me.. we talk on im alot and we talk occasionaly at skewl. i see him all the time and i think about him because hes awsome and funny -but- i dont know if i acually like him... its just weird because i have mixed emotions about this i could like him one minute then not the next... i am looking for a guy who loves me unconditionably and who loves me crazily but i dont know if hes that guy at all but idont really know...
im kinda mad at him right now because i dont know why but i think he was mad at me first because i always want to talk to him...
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my life is being cOntrOlled !
Posted Friday December 12 2008, 11:07 pm
Ohkay! well tOmOrrOw is my schOOl's fOOtball game & it's in anOther cityyy . like 4 hOurs awayyyyyyy. maybe even mOreeee ! = (
my bOyfriend i'll jus call him bOO. well bOO lives like maybe 10 sOmethin minutes away frOm my mOm. nOt tOO far.. but thing is. I live with my grandparents. & they won't lemme gO Over my mOm's hOuse & that's the Only way I can see him. =(
I really like himmmmmm. its friday and we've been tOgether fOr a week and 3 days. i've never liked anyOne sO much. I dOn't lOve him =/ I dOn't think. & I tried tO get my grandma tO let me gO visit him fOr jus a FEW mins. she wOuldn't let me! I can't call him either. his cell gOt stOlen. AND he's like a persOn whO's always Out On the streets. (nOt selli...
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So I like this guy....
Posted Friday December 12 2008, 10:50 pm
well i know this is a typical everyday question that girls think about, and ask a lot but here is my story.
so ive liked this guy for a veryy long time and recently, ive gotten to know him a whole lot better. he's hilarious, sweet, and knows how to treat a girl. not to mention hottt :) its getting so annoying just thinking about him everyday and not have the confidence to do anything about it. ive been trying to invite him and his friends to movies and stuff too. but sometimes i get shy. its not like this with all of my other guy friends though! i really need to work on being shy around him, im really crazy and outgoing most of the time. so what im asking is what should i do to get him to notice me? how do i know if he likes me? and...
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crushing but confused
Posted Friday December 12 2008, 5:14 pm
17/F
Okay lets start here, I recently started hanging out at my sisters house a lot. Well this guy started coming around and i didnt really draw any attention to myself because thats stupid.. well apparently he noticed me anyway because i heard he said something to my brother in law about liking me. So I got his number out of somebody phone and casually started texting him.. i asked if he was at my sisters and he said no blah blah.. well just to play it cool i was like ok thanks well he kept the conversation going. we've benn talking for like a week now and last night i was at my sisters and he acted real chill and didnt say anything really. so i got home and was like so im a stranger huh and he said he didnt want to draw att...
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I LOVE HIM
Posted Friday December 12 2008, 4:37 pm
ok so i really really really like this guy its been for a bout a yr now.... we are just friends right now but hes so cute and i want to be his girlfriend... but like he wont ask me out so like what are the signs that i can give him to show him i like himm. my friend told him i liked him allready but should i go tell him? any advice would be helpful thanks i will rate
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Parting ways with someone you love
Posted Friday December 12 2008, 3:27 pm
Well I just parted ways with a very amazing guy. We dated for two months, everything was perfect. I liked him more and more with each day (which never happened for me before, I usually stop liking the guy as soon as he likes me back). We have fooled around two or three times. I broke it off with him because he is 6 years older than me, and I'm 17, and I knew I was going to get hurt in the end because we are at such different points in our lives, its inevitable we would have parted ways eventually anyways. Also, I didn't want him to get in trouble, because things were getting very serious. And if anyone were to find out what we did he would be in severe trouble for that.
This happened yesterday, all of a sudden. It was a gut ...
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Love Lockdown
Posted Friday December 12 2008, 4:26 am
Okey, This guy I met 2 weeks back, Mike. His parents divorced when he was 2 so he went off to a boarding school,and since the past 2 years he's been living alone. He hasnt even felt what its like to have a family. He doesnt have any close friends (He calls whoever he knows aquaintances) He is really into books and uses dictionary terms when he's generally talking. But he is really poetic and treats me like a princess and is soooo..H.O.T!! Ok, he is somewhat like Noah, from 'The Notebook' if you've ever read Nicholas Sparks. I see myself falling for him. No,no I'm totally crazy for him. The problem is I'm a social butterfly whereas he doesnt even hang out with anyone. I feel if my friends would ever come to know about him, they would just di...
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played a player
Posted Friday December 12 2008, 12:09 am
okay so i just got played. bad! and this guy i fell for is so pathetic that my feelings for him now are bitterness and i kind of want to get even because hes doing this to so many other girls its just annoying and not right. so now the situation is that he thinks were "still friends" but really i dont even want to be his friend. i want to play him back. i want to bother him... and get under his skin cuz hes a liar, who thinks hes all that, and can have as many girls as he wants and treat everyone like shit! so please no lectures, the dick deserves it! soooo any tips????
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