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missing being single?
Basically, I'm in my first relationship :)
Anyway for the past few months, at the parties I go to...this is going to sound soooo stuck up, but I was the "it" girl. The girl who wasn't a whore, but did kiss a lot of guys. The girl that all the guys wanted to be with. I'm SO SORRY for sounding so stuck up, and I'm not conceited I promise. These guys are desperate :P
But anyway, I got asked out a lot and said no to most guys because I liked being single. But I said yes to one guy, because I really liked him. And we've been going out for a while. I think I might even love him.
Anyway, I would NEVER dump him to be single again. I'm not that horrible, and doing that would lead myself to staying lonely all my life.
However my friend has basically become the new me at these parties. She's the girl all the guys want, and she's the girl loving the attention I once loved.
I'm finding myself really jealous of it. And I feel absolutely horrible, because I'm in a relationship with such a great guy. But I still feel jealous.
Bear in mind this is my first relationship ever, so I'm not used to the transition of going from single to a relationship. I'm happier in a relationship than I ever was when I was single, but I still have times where I'm really jealous of my friend for being the new golden girl, and I sometimes miss being single.
How can I get the hell over it?
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jealousy doesn't get you anywhere, and imagine how she must've felt when you had all the attention. don't let the jealousy lead you to hurting your boyfriend, and don't let that stuff bother you either.
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Honestly, give it a month and I'm almost positive you'll get over it. It'll give time for your relationship to get better and for you to appreciate it more. Not to mention jealousy doesn't last long.
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You could age 10 years in a day and grow some maturity.
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I think we all can get like that at times,
but when your like 'That used to be me. . .' just think, 'Wow, I was like that ? I have an amazing boyfriend now (:' lol, corny, but it may work.
Just think about him when this goes on. Think about how good he is, and how you love being his girlfriend, and how much you love him (:
lol, i'm so corny XD
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