My names Lana, and I love giving advice (:
My advice doesn't always help, but i'm pretty expierienced with problems, if it's either me or my friends, i've been in some type of crazy situation.
Most of the time i can relate (:
im 13, and am pretty confused with my own life.
talk to me ! (:
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Location: Miami
Occupation: Advice (:
Age: 13
Member Since: October 6, 2008
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does anyone know of any cool places to go for new years if you're under 18 in florida? preferably south florida but anywhere is fine really... (link)
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Lincoln Road in South Miami is pretty nice,
it gets pretty busy though, but it's really nice.
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Basically, I'm in my first relationship :)
Anyway for the past few months, at the parties I go to...this is going to sound soooo stuck up, but I was the "it" girl. The girl who wasn't a whore, but did kiss a lot of guys. The girl that all the guys wanted to be with. I'm SO SORRY for sounding so stuck up, and I'm not conceited I promise. These guys are desperate :P
But anyway, I got asked out a lot and said no to most guys because I liked being single. But I said yes to one guy, because I really liked him. And we've been going out for a while. I think I might even love him.
Anyway, I would NEVER dump him to be single again. I'm not that horrible, and doing that would lead myself to staying lonely all my life.
However my friend has basically become the new me at these parties. She's the girl all the guys want, and she's the girl loving the attention I once loved.
I'm finding myself really jealous of it. And I feel absolutely horrible, because I'm in a relationship with such a great guy. But I still feel jealous.
Bear in mind this is my first relationship ever, so I'm not used to the transition of going from single to a relationship. I'm happier in a relationship than I ever was when I was single, but I still have times where I'm really jealous of my friend for being the new golden girl, and I sometimes miss being single.
How can I get the hell over it? (link)
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I think we all can get like that at times,
but when your like 'That used to be me. . .' just think, 'Wow, I was like that ? I have an amazing boyfriend now (:' lol, corny, but it may work.
Just think about him when this goes on. Think about how good he is, and how you love being his girlfriend, and how much you love him (:
lol, i'm so corny XD
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Hi I am a 16 year old female, well I don't really have a problem but my style is very sporty, I am tomboyish and mostly everyday I wear like tshirts and jeans, and hoodies. I have never been interested in like dresses or skirts, but I really would like to be a little more fashionable, not because of popularity issues or anything, but just because since I am getting older I want to look a little more mature and not look like I am hiding myself. Of course I still am myself, I dont want to change that, but what would you suggest to help boost my confidence and where would be a good start to being a little more fashionable? I don't like to be really glitzy or catch EVERYONE's attention walking down the halls. Just a small change... for example what types of stores should i look at? (online preferably). and anything else you think would help...
by the way I dont have much money for like abercrombie and hollister and anyways I don't really want to wear their stuff, not that I dont like their clothing but I don't really like the whole brand name thing that EVERYONE wears.
Thanks!! (link)
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No offense to you or anything,
but when your 16, Hollister&Abercrombie are pretty much the ONLY thing. although i honestly REALLY don't like Abercrombie
Or just go to Pacsun, they arent very brandsy.
They have a good variety also (:
hope i helped at least a little (;
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Okay so this guy and I had been best friends for a year or two. We decided to date. Then one day out of the blue he broke up with me. I finally got over it and moved on. Now I am dating my best (guy) friend's brother. He's the best. Like my true love. =] It's just that my ex told me he still likes me. I told him I was in love with my boyfriend, but he just won't give up. It's been like this for THREE months. What do I do? He makes my life horrible sometimes and he makes my boyfriend really mad. It's getting better now....but he still likes me and he won't stop telling me things that I don't want to hear. What do you think? (link)
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I think you should tell him he needs to stop, and that you don't want to hear it. And if you already have, continue to tell him. Persistance is key. Tell him that HES the one who broke up with YOU. and it was his fault he lost you, not yours. you've found someone better, and he's just jealous that it isn't him. Some guys are pigs, and think that what was once theirs, should always be theirs.
hope i helped you (:
message me if you need anything else (:
-- lana (;
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ok. i have a boyfriend, we have been going out for about a month and a half. we dont do alot together becase i'm really busy. well everytime we do something together he doesnt talk to me for like half an hour, he is supper shy and i think he is like scared of me or something, but i know he really likes me. i'm kind of shy to so this is really hard. its really hard to talk when were together, so what should we do becase we really like eachother?? (link)
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That's the problem, your both shy.
if you two really like eachother, you should be able to talk to eachother, even if your shy.
that's why you need to go out with someone who is the opposite of shy, because you need to even eachother out. Try talking to him, and if it's awkward, it's not meant to be, and if he doesn't try talking to you, it's not going to work,
go out with someone who's not shy (:
it'll help you (:
message me if you need anything (:
hope i helped you (:
-- lana (;
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I know, I know.. they all say "if you have to ask if you're in love, then you're not." I just really am very confused. Help me?
Okay, so, theres this kid. we'll call him "jack" we went out about 4 years ago. Ever since then I cant get him off of my mind. whenever we talk on the phone i cant stop thinking about him for weeks after and even when we dont talk on the phone i still cant stop thinking about him. If I have a boyfriend my relationship suffers because of me not being able to stop thinking or wanting him back. However, whenever he has a girlfriend it doesn't bother me. I just know I have no place to even get upset because I'm the one that broke up with him. Im not sure. Can someone please help me kind of sort out my feelings and tell me why i feel like this all the time? please? (link)
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I know exactly how you feel, if he was your first boyfriend, you might not exactly be able to get completely over him. What it is, is that your over him, but still have feelings for him. Those feelings will most likely never go away, because he was your first love. And your first love is like, your always love, unfortunately. But you need to find someone to fill the whole that he left, or better yet, talk to him about it. If he's a jerk to you about it, don't listen to your friends when they say 'He's not worth your time, get over him' because you really can't help yourself but like him more. But you jsut need to find someone to fill that whole.
I hope this helped you and anyone else who read it (:
if you need anything else, just message me (;
♥Lana
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