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Love Lockdown


Question Posted Friday December 12 2008, 4:26 am

Okey, This guy I met 2 weeks back, Mike. His parents divorced when he was 2 so he went off to a boarding school,and since the past 2 years he's been living alone. He hasnt even felt what its like to have a family. He doesnt have any close friends (He calls whoever he knows aquaintances) He is really into books and uses dictionary terms when he's generally talking. But he is really poetic and treats me like a princess and is soooo..H.O.T!! Ok, he is somewhat like Noah, from 'The Notebook' if you've ever read Nicholas Sparks. I see myself falling for him. No,no I'm totally crazy for him. The problem is I'm a social butterfly whereas he doesnt even hang out with anyone. I feel if my friends would ever come to know about him, they would just die laughing at me. But I really like him. Can anyone please help me?
Thank you sooo much!!!
Love y'all...


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katexoanne answered Saturday December 13 2008, 10:00 pm:
Honestly, I would just tell my friends about him if I was youl. If they found out about him without you being the ones to tell them, hey would think you were ashamed of him or something. If you are the one that tells them about him then they will see that your not embarressed to be an "acquaintance" of his. Just be confedent. Your friends have no reason to make fun of you and you have no reason to be ashamed. So let the world know how happy you are that you like this guy! :) Good luck!

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ccupcake07 answered Friday December 12 2008, 3:25 pm:
I would go for it. I wouldn't care what my friends think. Just tell them and look serious when you tell them. If they start lauging, don't smile, and when they are done, tell them everything he does nice to you so they know what a great guy he is. Also, i would start hanging out with him and let him know that you like hanging out with him. :) Hope this helps!

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Cassiopea answered Friday December 12 2008, 2:33 pm:
you never know what will happen when you two start dating. You could be a catalyst for him to start hanging out with people. Don't force him or anything but I think if you were to show him that side of things he might want to. The thing is...is that he might have an effect on you making you not want you to hang out without him (I have been in this situation it sucks) If he doesn't want to hang out and you do you should because I think that is the only reason your friends would get mad because you would become a hermit and not see them at all.
Really it doesn't matter what your friends think as long as your happy and he treats you right they should be fine. Also if he is like Noah and I was your friend I would be like the most jelous friend in the world...lol!

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shelbz7077 answered Friday December 12 2008, 12:25 pm:
I think you should totally go for the guy. I mean if he's who you want your friends shouldn't laugh about it or anything. They should support your choice and help you out. It doesn't matter what anybody thinks as long as you are happy. Good luck. =]

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