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My boyfriend underestimates me because I'm a girl
Posted Tuesday January 20 2009, 5:38 pm
Hi! I’m a 19 year old girl and since 4 months I have a boyfriend who is also 19. I am really happy with him, but lately there has been a thing that is starting to bug me. I recentlty got my black belt in hapkido and I’m very proud over that. Since then my boyfriend has been more or less challenging me to “show what I can do” or he says he won’t believe that martial arts would work for “a little girl” like me against a guy. My mother is from India, and like her I’m rather short (5’4’’), but he is no giant (like 5’10’’) either and even though I don’t look like it, I’m actually pretty strong, from all my training. I know there are a lot of things I could do to defeat a bigger opponent like him and I really want ...
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valentines day
Posted Tuesday January 20 2009, 5:30 pm
i want to make my boyfriend cookies for valentines day. what else can i do for him? nothing sexual please. by then itll barely be almost 2 months. and i want to make valentines special for the both of us. please and thankyou! in advance
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Breaking up with a Guy
Posted Tuesday January 20 2009, 4:50 pm
Heres the deal.... my boyfriend just broke up with me and we had been going out for a little more than a year. This really hurt because he did not say exactly why. He was not perfect but I loved him. I need some advice on how to get through this because I am really hurting right now and could be use some support. What can I tell myself that will make me feel better?
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my boyfriend's shy...
Posted Tuesday January 20 2009, 4:45 pm
i don't think he's prude ... because he has no problem with kissing me, but i'm curious because whenever i joke around about perverted things [nothing too intense lol... just the normal jokes] he always just says 'lol' but never really talks about anything like that. i'm not asking him to be PERVERTED, but maybe it's that i need to unprude him? i don't really know, i don't want to scare him away by taking things to the next level. [i hope most of you know what i'm trying to say.]
what should i do to make him unshy but ... not scare him too much?
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getting a guy to like me..
Posted Tuesday January 20 2009, 4:43 pm
I like this guy in my school and he might like me too but not completely sure. But whether or not he likes me, what are some things I can do or say to get him to like me/like me more while still being myself and not being too obvious?
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?
Posted Tuesday January 20 2009, 2:24 pm
i like this boy and he the first boy like seen me and my boyfriend broke up and he stop talking to me but he told me that we could talk and chill if i have sex with him
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my crushh
Posted Tuesday January 20 2009, 12:28 am
16.f
i've liked this guy for a month or so now. we're in the exact same circle of friends and we talk primarily in school (in fact, we hardly ever talk on instant messenger or via facebook / myspace). i have his number and we call and text each other, usually for school purposes. i help him out a lot with school to be a good friend, and he trusts me. we also hang out a lot but in group settings.
however, just recently, i noticed that he would always hang around this girl, so i got up enough courage to ask him about their friendship and he admitted that he's liked her for a long time but isn't sure about the other way around.
well, lucky me, right? great friends, lots of trust, single, hang o...
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im jealous and get mad easily
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 10:30 pm
well im super jealousof all my guys gal friends. like he has so many. and hes always texting them. i get jealous and then his neighbor. causehe waits for her after school and walks with her. and he walks with her in the morning. he says not to be jealous and for me to trust him. he wont hurt me and all that. i also get mad at the smallest things. if he says something jokingly ill get offended or something. and i always seem like im making him mad. then he tels me. i like it when you make me mad. so im like why is he so confusing! then i was telling him stuff i hate. like how i make him mad and how were always arguing andhe txts back. i hate that i love you. what do you think is up? i need advice please! like is this guy for real? how can i ...
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is he going to break up with me?
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 10:03 pm
how can i tell if my boyfriend of 1 month (sat.) is going to break up with me. my friend is saying im over reacting. cause he doesnt always text people back. but lke all this 3 day weekend i barely talked to him. he either didnt text me back. or he didnt text me first. and im so scared hes going to break up with me.so i say im not going to text him or anything so he wont be annoyed but then it kills me. cause i want to talk to him so bad. and i get all these jealous urges. and im really working on them. so someone please tell me what are some signs he is going to breakup with me. am i thinking too much? or what? please! and thankyou!!
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Jealousy and or insecurity
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 8:59 pm
So, I met my current girlfriend at work. After she got moved to another store, we decided to date, and I soon after quit working for the company all together. At her new store, she works overnight shifts which require her to be by herself with one other clerk employee from 12:30am until 8am. She has befriended one of the overnight clerks that she works with (there are only two) and this clerk is the only person she has made friends with at this new store.
My girlfriend and I have been together six months, and there is quite an age difference between us. The clerk is closer to my girfriend's age than I am, so that makes me insecure. She assures me all the time that she doesn't like this clerk in "that way" at all, bu...
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should i move on
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 8:05 pm
i really like this guy but im sure he doesnt like me but how do i get over him?
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Does she like me?
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 8:00 pm
22/male
I'll try to keep this short, here are the facts:
She's super cute, definitely a 10.
I'm an average looking guy, shy, but people tell me I'm really nice and sweet.
I've partied with her 3 times, and she has been nice to me in person even though I've been somewhat shy.
She has relationship problems, guys always treat her like crap for some reason.
I live an hour away now, but I move to her town in 4 months.
Recently, she's been talking to me quite a bit, and saying she wants to hang out with me. But I know she hangs out with a lot of guys. And she knows that I'm moving down to her town soon.
I think I'm probably a good change from her bad relatio...
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Valentine's day.
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 5:47 pm
I would really appreciate anyone's input on some cute ideas of valentine's gifts I could send my boyfriend. He lives a few hours from me, so the time we spend together is limited, but I want to do something special for him on Valentines day, I just need some help getting the ball rolling. He's in a band, he's really into music, and he loves to play guitar. if that helps with ideas.
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kiss
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 5:41 pm
How exacly do you kiss someone?
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Posted Monday January 19 2009, 3:19 pm
14/f
Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month. We don't go to the same school so we see each other like twice a week. I like him alot and I just get really nervous around him still. For like a whole month whenever I sit by him or whatever I feel nervous. I don't think I really show it but is there anyway to make myself feel more comfortable? Then another thing is that I get these thoughts in my head since he goes to a different school like, "what if he finds some other girl and something happens with them" or "what if he stops liking me" I know its kinda stupid thinking these kinds of things knowing he likes me and all but I don't know...I think that stuff alot. I'm only 14 and all and I t...
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is he a jerk ?
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 2:30 pm
okay so i told this kid i wanted to get to know him and he was all ya i agree, and he came over n we chilled and kissed and stuff and the other day he was like what do yu wanna do and i was like idc blah and then hes like ne suggestions and then some other stuff then he was like well sex would be nice but like a movie or something and i got pissed and he ws all im jk even tho it rlly didnt sound it and he always asks if my parents r gunna be home, so i already kinda figured that he also said he wasn't sure if he was ready for a relationship right now when i was like all u want is sex..and today he texted me and was like idk why you got so mad i was just kidding and asked if we would ever chill again and i was like as o now no bye am i overreacting or am i being logical
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Think i may have fell for a pregnant girl!!
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 1:34 pm
This girl and i have been hanging out for awhile and she is pregnant and we are just friends but now we are alittle more than friends but she has mood swings bad and makes me want to cut and run but i dont want to be like the other guys in her life i like her but im lost. i mean its not like she has a kid thats easy to deal with but she has one in her belly which makes everything complicated. im just not sure if its worth sticking around i want to but not sure if she's actually ready to have another guy in her life.
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Sould I go out with him???
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 1:22 pm
Well...I have a best guy friend who likes me and he knows i like him back..Sooo a few days ago he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said ill think about it. So he says he'll give me time..And i dont just like this boy i love him like crazy...So yea he is reallynice, funny, and extremely cute...Also im not allowed to have a boyfriend. So what should I do?
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ahhh! everyone knows!! XD what do i do hahaha
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 9:35 am
i posted a question about a day ago with the title "its not quite love but i think about her, what is it? :S" if you answerd that thank you muchy!! now i have another problem with the same girl xD i am the only guy in a class of girls who today all saw right through me and came out and asked do you fancey her!?! theres 8 of them and 1 of me.. so i went bright red and coudlnt talk for about 10 mins i told them that i think i do but im not sure (if you read my other question youll know why i dont know :P) anyway even though i didnt talk to her much today because well... im shy as hell (im working on it :s) but yeah first lesson today was allright not alot was said, we talked for a little bit then went back to working in silence with...
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I M SERIOUSLY DEPRESSED!!!!!
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 8:48 am
hi everyone, i mean evryone from the age of 13 to 80, I AM REALLY REALLY DEPRESSED!! PLEASE HELP ME!
MY STORY: well in childhood i had a mild problem in urinating which was latter corrected, now at the age of 25 my penis though well developed still is small in length!!!!!! yes to add to it recently my doc said that I CANNOT FATHER A CHILD!!!!!! since i dont have enough sperms!!!! However he did say that the size though small was adequate for me to satisfy. I AM SHATTERED FRIENDS AND I M REALLY DEPRESSED!!! I M TRULY IN LOVE WITH A GIRL AND WE HAVE BEEN GOING AROUND FROM PAST 10 Years and i will definately tel her every thing!!!! but idont know WHY ME WHY??????? I HAVE STOPPED CONCENTRATING ON MY WORK, MY PERSONAL LIFE IS AFFECTED, yo...
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