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im jealous and get mad easily
well im super jealousof all my guys gal friends. like he has so many. and hes always texting them. i get jealous and then his neighbor. causehe waits for her after school and walks with her. and he walks with her in the morning. he says not to be jealous and for me to trust him. he wont hurt me and all that. i also get mad at the smallest things. if he says something jokingly ill get offended or something. and i always seem like im making him mad. then he tels me. i like it when you make me mad. so im like why is he so confusing! then i was telling him stuff i hate. like how i make him mad and how were always arguing andhe txts back. i hate that i love you. what do you think is up? i need advice please! like is this guy for real? how can i quit with all my jealousy and getting mad all the time at the littlest things. idont want to lose him. i cant picture my life without him.its going to be our 1 month on saturday. thankyou in advance
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I was like this too at one point but you do have to learn to trust him because you're relationship is going to be crap if you don't. You have to put yourself in his shoes and see how bad you'd feel if he were the super jealous one for no reason.
I say you let him know what you don't like and let him know that it makes you feel uncomfortable but you also have to be just as willing to bend for him and the things he does.
Does that make any sense?
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I use to be like that towards guys. It got old fast, cause they didn't like it much with me. I use to get told It was because I was so insecure..
You may not be able to stop the jealousie and anger, you may need to just come to terms, he's an amazingly awesome and sweet guy, and isnt' going to hurt you in anyway.. Which is hard, and can be bad. Especially if he does hurt you, then when you do get into another relationship it'll take forever to gain security.
Anyways, just try to realize he's a wonderful guy, don't worrie so much about him hurting you..
Unless signs point to such things.
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