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Does she like me?
22/male
I'll try to keep this short, here are the facts:
She's super cute, definitely a 10.
I'm an average looking guy, shy, but people tell me I'm really nice and sweet.
I've partied with her 3 times, and she has been nice to me in person even though I've been somewhat shy.
She has relationship problems, guys always treat her like crap for some reason.
I live an hour away now, but I move to her town in 4 months.
Recently, she's been talking to me quite a bit, and saying she wants to hang out with me. But I know she hangs out with a lot of guys. And she knows that I'm moving down to her town soon.
I think I'm probably a good change from her bad relationships. Is that unheard of for her to go for a guy like me? Could it last or am I just a stopgap until her next ahole guy?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Some girls are drawn to a*holes. It's just in their mentality, some girls even think they cannot do any better. But if you can prove to her that you're not like that - it will sweep her off her feet.
Having confidence is extremely sexy to any female. But don't go beyond and turn that confidence into cocky-ness, know where to draw the line. You should first start out by asking her out on a date and see where it takes you from there.
It may make you a bit intimidated that she talks to other guys where she lives but it does not mean she's 'hooking up' with them. They may just simply be friends to her. Have the right attitude and confidence and you will do very well.
Good Luck!
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I say: give her a chance.
She'll either realize that you're a catch or not. If not, her loss. There are plenty of girls out there that do go for shy, nice, sweet guys.
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It is not unheard of at all for her to go for a guy like you. Sweet guys generally come out victorious in the end.
All personality traits aside, if you have mild feelings for someone, you generally should peruse a relationship. You never know how cut out you might be for someone unless you give it a shot. Maybe you'll end up going on one date and being bored to death. Maybe she'll be the most exciting girl you've ever met. Or maybe she'll be the one. You'll never know unless you try.
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I am going to tell you my situation. I am younger than you but maybe my advice can help you. I am Average looking female who moved to a small town 7 months ago. had a rough start. A guy added me to myspace. He was always the type of guy that was into super model girls, partying, drinking, some drugs. That kind of stuff. I am a young teenage mother, working and starting college. We started talking making it clear we could be friends. Talking got us to relize all we could think about was each other (after a few months of talking) we hung out a few times. I was the first girl he stayed a whole night with the first girl to bring to family functions, the first girl to meet his mother. we live together now, engaged. anything is possible and maybe this female relizes that you are different from the guys she is used to. talk to her. get to know her and hang out with her. good luck!
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Even before you move to where she is,
an hour isn't that far away. My hubby
drives almost that far to work daily.
So go for it. She could indeed go for
a guy like you.
Don't just say do you want to hang out.
Make sure she knows you are asking for
a date. Dinner or something "couple" like,
not a party if you are really interested
in a relationship.First couple of times
anyway. :)
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