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How do I pick...?
Posted Sunday January 25 2009, 6:10 pm
This is gonna be long...I'm just looking for opinions here, this is obviously something I need to figure out for myself. But, I need some outsiders to look at this situation for me. I'm too stuck in the middle to step out. I'm 21, and a girl.
Guy #1 - Jeremy. He's 23.
Jeremy and I have almost three and a half years of history together. Unfortunately the history isn't all positive. He was emotionally abusive for the entirety of our "official" relationship, and caused me some major issues (depression, anorexia). We dated for awhile in '05-'06, but broke up because he was having depression issues and couldn't handle our relationship on top of all that...but we never really broke up. We stayed friends with benefits for ...
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High School Sweethearts
Posted Sunday January 25 2009, 4:49 pm
I'll just get right to the point with my questions...if you can answer more than one, that's great, I'd just like to hear opinions from anyone
-Did you marry someone you met from highschool? Or have you been with someone from highschool for many years?
-Was this person your first boyfriend/girlfriend?
-Once you started dating each other, did you know that you would one day get married?
-If the person you married was your first boyfriend/girlfriend, did you ever wish you dated anyone else?
-Do you still have the same feelings for this person as when you first met them? Have those feelings gotten greater? Lesser?
Thank you so much for anyone who answers. I'm just curious to know, I thi...
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Posted Sunday January 25 2009, 4:08 pm
15/f
Well i am sorta talking to this guy. He supposedly like me a whole lot so i am getting to know him better to see if i like him and see if we would ever date. He texts me everyday and we talk a lot. Today is the first day he hasn't texted me or called. We never had a fight or anything, so i don't know what's up. We said goodnight last night and the said he would talk to me today. He ususally texts me in the morning but today he didn't. Now i am wondering why he hasn't texted me. Any suggestions or reasons why?? thanks!
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How do i get him to realize
Posted Sunday January 25 2009, 11:09 am
Theres this guy who im really in love with and hes in love with me too. we have been dating for 6 months but have been best friends for a year. we hang out everyday and i love him with all my heart. However, he has trouble believing this. He says he knows he loves me but doesnt know how i could love him. He thinx it must be infatuation or something but i know for sure that its not. He was previously a player but has changed. but he has a low view of himself. Its really sad to me that he hates himself so much that he doesnt think anyine else could love him. How can I make him believe that its the real thing not just infatuation or lust. i want him to know that i really do love him more than anything
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Graduated school and love a boy
Posted Sunday January 25 2009, 5:23 am
I just graduated from high school and I really really like a boy who i used to go to school with. None of our friends know each other. What i'd really like to do is get together a huge group of us from high school and have a big gathering or party or something and I'd like to invite him and his friends too.
The thing is, how am i going to get him and his friends to come if none of my friends know his friends. And also where are we going to have such a big gathering?
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Valentines Day Mix CD
Posted Sunday January 25 2009, 2:01 am
So for V-Day, I'm making my boyfriend a mix cd with love songs. I just need some help picking songs!
He really likes rock and roll and alternative, like Black Sabbath, Nickelback, AC/DC, Led Zeppelin.. basically anything you can find on Guitar Hero. I want songs that are sexy and rocking, since he'd like them more than just sappy slow love songs.
So far I have "Addicted" by Saving Abel, "Feeling This" by Blink 182, and "Animal" by Nickelback.
I also need other suggestions of what to do for him. I know he has something big planned for me because I keep hearing rumors from my friends. I want to make sure he loves V-Day as much as I love him. Thanks in advance!
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long distance valentinessss day!
Posted Sunday January 25 2009, 1:03 am
ah okay. my girlfriend and i have been dating for 9 months, it'll be 10 months by valentines day. but shes in college so we have a long distance relationship.
we wont be together on valentines day but i still want to do something sweet for her, whether i mail it or whatever.
any ideas?!
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Valentines day ....for a guy
Posted Saturday January 24 2009, 11:40 pm
what do you get a guy for valentines day???? i need to get something for this guy i really like and have been spending a lot of time with. i don't want it to be like "just a present" but something that's like "duh boy i like you." lol. but cliche things like teddys and chocolate and roses seem more female-aimed. i don't know! and i also don't have an infinite amount of money...so...ya. any ideas?
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Sex positions.
Posted Saturday January 24 2009, 9:11 pm
Anyone know any exotic or different sex positions out there?
I feel like trying something new with my boyfriend.
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Boy problems.
Posted Saturday January 24 2009, 9:08 pm
Alright, so I started falling for this guy in my second hour class pretty hard this year. We flirt all of the time, and sometimes I get the impression that he wants to ask me out, but the one thing holding up the relationship is that he has a girlfriend. Only I'm so confused because when he talks to me, he acts as if he doesn't have a girlfriend at all. & I know he wants me to flirt back with him. & I can tell that he likes me. & I think he knows that I like him too. We're not in the same grade; he's three years older than me, but I really don't see age as an issue. This situation has been driving me insane for months, and all I really need right now is some good advice on what I should do.
Should I flirt back? Ju...
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Keeping guys,
Posted Saturday January 24 2009, 7:52 pm
15/f. I don't have a problem talking to guys. But I never seem to get asked out. Idk if it's a problem with how I act, or something. Any help?
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boy problem. :/
Posted Saturday January 24 2009, 3:25 pm
Okay, so i've known this guy for about three years now. He's two grades ahead of me. we dated over summer, and i didn't know i liked him so much until we began "talking" again this year. he got mad because i couldn't ALWAYS go to his house, and couldn't meet up with him 24/7.he said we had to stop "talking" because he flirts around. and hooks up with other girls to much, and he wouldn't want to hurt me. on the other hand, we still talked, as f riends. but still flirted. then he stopped texting me one day and i wondered why...... a few weeks later i bumped into his at the local mall,and he said hey, and i responded saying hey back. well, i was really getting over this ignoring me thing, and i was wondering the whole time ...
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Making Out
Posted Saturday January 24 2009, 3:09 pm
How do you make-out?
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Torn between guys.
Posted Saturday January 24 2009, 11:02 am
15/f. I had been talking to the one guy C, but before I was talking to M. C goes to another school, M goes to my school. After we came back from christmas break I heard another girl i didn't like liked M, & had said if I tried to come between her & M she'd be so pissed or something like that. So I started talking M again. But I realized he was really really into me, not the same way I was. The C found out I was talking to M & we stopped talking. But I wanted to be with C, so I kept making up excuses for M to stop talking to me.
The first time me and M stopped talking was because he never had time for me like with football, and friends, drinking, and smoking, things im not into, and the second time it was the same...
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boy
Posted Saturday January 24 2009, 6:11 am
There's this boy at my school. He's new, I'm a sophomore and he's a junior. Every time I see him in the hallway, he's checkin me out! And I think he's the cutest person I've ever seen in my life. The thing is, we have never talked, and probably never will becuase no classes, no mutual friends, and different groups... the groups part means like I'll never run into him at a party (he's kind of into the skater scene and I go to the weekend parties, and also I'm more popular than he is). So were not in the same group, but he is actually so attractive to me and there is just so much tension between us and I wanna hook up with himmm!! I have no idea how to approach this situation because theres a lot of setbacks. What should I do about him?
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Freedom? Parents won't allow it.
Posted Saturday January 24 2009, 5:06 am
My boyfriend and I really want to see eachother more because we go to different schools, but my parents are being really annoying about it. They know I have a boyfriend because they have hinted that they know, and I think that it only made it worse. Normally, I'm not allowed to be at a guy's house or a guy at my house. But now, it seems like they are making a big deal about us even trying to hang out alone at a public place. I think that they think that we will sneak off and go to his house. And obviously I get that they are afraid of pregnancy or me getting hurt, but it just seems like I'm getting a little old for this. I'm 16. Lately I've been pretending to hang out with groups of friends but I actually don't hang out with them, I just sn...
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what are we question
Posted Saturday January 24 2009, 3:23 am
best way to say something about a very good friend of mine i've been dating intermitent like one day he acts cold fish the next one we're making out and so on..so what do you people think..i cant easily tell him in person cause we dont hang otu that much on our respective houses we go to the movies very often so its not like im gonna say something like asking were we're standing in the middle of the movie..but if i ask him on msn or soemthing..i think he would be more honest cause you know its easier t o type than to actually articulate the words cause i want to say 3452435 things and i know that in person that i wont be able to do ...so i dont know exactly how can i ask him
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ABUSE AND BROKEN DREAMS
Posted Saturday January 24 2009, 12:15 am
My boyfriend is such a jerk to me! We have been together for a cuple of years now in a long distance relationship. He comes to visit me every 3 months but its such a drag to convince him! He is always making me feel bad and saying mean things to me. He is a jealous control freak! I feel that its my fault beacuse I let him do that to me in the first place. I've never been a party girl,I would say that im a stay at home girl. I dont have much friends..Im always with my mother..to me shes like my friend, sicne I share with her everything. I'm pretty confused i don't know what to do I really love him and i know that he loves me too but hes hurting mee verbaly and i know the consequences of that but i just can't let go of him. i live in US and h...
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First Kiss. Oh god
Posted Friday January 23 2009, 9:51 pm
Ok so I might be going to the movies with tis guy I really like
All my friends say he likes me
I denie it. But KINDA think the same thing
Im kinda on the chub side & I think Im unattractive
But thats off topic;
In case he DOES like me
Im afriad he might kiss me
I want to kiss him
But first kiss = I have KNOW idea what to do
How to move my lips
Just. Im clueless with the WHOLE thing
Help?
Links to websites and bideos would be LOVED
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So i think im bi.
Posted Friday January 23 2009, 7:46 pm
Well Im 15/f, and i have a bf. For the past half of a year, i've been more interested in girls. I just learned yesterday that my friend who is two years younger than me is bi. i kinda like her, more than just a friend. I want to try to get a gf, but the ones in my school are druggies, and i just dont think they would accept me. My friend said just tell people, and they will accept you, but i just dont think they will. I kinda want to brek up with my bf, because i went out with him for almost 2 years, and we just got back together about a month ago. and i've realized nomatter how much time i give him hes never gonna change.
So what should i do? what would you do? Should i break up wiht my bf? i love him, just its kinda fading...
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